| Nanny was sick for about 3 weeks and doesn't seem better in herself or physically. She is still doing an amazing job but everytime I see her, I see the weight loss continuing and how pale she looks and I still know she isn't 100%. Can't help but worry she has something terminal. I am worried for her and don't know what to do. Am I just jumping the gun? Would you be worried? |
| If she wants you to know, she will tell you and as long as she is doing her job it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. BUTT OUT! |
| Sorry to hear about your nanny. I would talk to her and ask if everything’s okay and let her know that if she needs anything (if it’s genuine) to let you guys know. You definitely want to know if it’s something serious because in the end, she’s alone with your child(ren). But hopefully everything is okay with her. |
| You again? |
This. And thanks for caring OP |
| I think it's OK to ask her if she's feeling well and if there's anything you can do for her. If she says no, I think you need to leave it alone unless/until it affects her job performance. It's nice of you to notice and care that she seems unwell. |
That’s what I was thinking. |
| Maybe she's pregnant |