Arrived back late...
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Anonymous
| Part time nanny (Works 4 afternoons) is meant to work 3PM-6PM. We arrived back at 7.30PM last Monday after celebrating my sisters 40th birthday. Nanny seems pissed, how to approach this? |
Anonymous
| Did you at least text her to let her know you'd be late/ask if it was ok and also paid her extra? |
Anonymous
| Paid her for extra time, didn't let her know the day before, I do admit that. |
Anonymous
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I'd be pissed too, if you hadn't texted me at least by 5pm letting me know you'd be late and a ballpark of how late you may be. If you didn't let her know, that's in bad taste. Imagine if she showed up 1.5 hours late to babysit for you without letting you know. You'd probably want to fire her on the spot, right?
She could have had plans at 6:30 or a family to get back home to, kids to tuck into bed, etc. I hope you paid her for another 1.5 hours of her time, plus a tip. If you let her know with sufficient time and paid her extra, sure she can be annoyed, but I don't think she has any reason to be pissed. If you didn't do either or both of those things, she definitely does. |
Anonymous
| Well, She didn't know until about 6PM that we would be an hour late but she has always said she can work up till 6.30PM. We tried to get her an uber home and did pay her extra. |
Anonymous
| Should have let her know the day before or the morning of the day she worked |
Anonymous
| She said she's available until 6:30 and you didn't show up until 7;30 with no warning and without making sure she was available? And you wonder why she's pissed? Is this for real? |
Anonymous
| No, We were back at 7PM but didn't let her know till 6PM that we would be later |
Anonymous
Not PP, but you said in OP that you arrived at 7:30. Now it's 7:00. I'm inclined to believe it was 7:30... Besides she didn't know she wasn't leaving at 6:00pm until it was 6:00pm! That is beyond rude. You knew you weren't going to be back at 5:00pm when you still weren't ready to leave. I would be pissed, and I've been a nanny and a MB. You didn't respect her time. |
Anonymous
| It was 6PM that I let her know we would be an hour later, We were a little after 7PM. |
Anonymous
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OP, I am having a real tough time buying your story because you first stated that you arrived home at 7:30PM, then you switched it to 7:00PM.
Also, you stated that you "tried" to get her an über back home, but never confirmed if you actually did. Plus, your Nanny told you she was free up until six-thirty, but you didn't get home until 7:30PM. Yes, I think your Nanny had every right to be angry at you for coming home so late. You owe her a huge apology & to never let this happen again. |
Anonymous
| If my end time is 6, then by 5:50 I have my things together, am straightening up last minute, getting really excited about leaving, and looking out the window periodically to watch for MB and DB. If I got a text at that time that they'll be another hour- hour and a half, I'd be pissed. |
Anonymous
| OP here and as I said, it was a bit after 7 and we did pay her extra and offer an uber home which she declined. My mistake was letting her know so late on in her shift that we were going to be later than planned. |
Anonymous
| OP, stop with the 7pm stuff. You posted 4 comments before you changed your story; no one is falling for it. What you did was incredibly rude and self-centered, and the fact that you're trying to talk your way out of getting called out for it on this board means you don't get that and you're still more concerned with yourself than what you did to her. If I was your nanny I'd be looking for a different job; there's zero chance that this is a one-off for you. |
Anonymous
Inexcusable! You kept her 90 minutes past her quitting time. You would have a $&it fit if she was 10 minutes late! I would find a new job. No excuse for this. |