Feelings for MB

[Anonymous]

Never thought it would happen as I considered myself straight but for months I have had a 'girl crush' on MB now I think it has developed into love.
I am not young and am as shocked as anyone else this has happened.
I know I need to quit and keep my feelings hidden. Don't know why I am posting as I am sure I will get a few nasty comments but I feel so alone in this.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you need to quit. There's no way that you can keep working for her and keep a professional relationship. Move on and find someone else, both professionally and romantically.

[Anonymous]

Trolls at it again.

[Anonymous]

OP here and I sincerely wish I was a troll. This situation is horrible.

[Anonymous]

Quit and find a good therapist. The situation you are in will only hurt you - she is your boss and married. Give your notice today.

[Anonymous]

Why a therapist? That's just silly. We fall in love with all different people in all different circumstances. Unless OP actively tries to split up the marriage or persue the MB, I don't see the problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why a therapist? That's just silly. We fall in love with all different people in all different circumstances. Unless OP actively tries to split up the marriage or persue the MB, I don't see the problem.

I concur.
I don't think that this particular situation warrants seeing a therapist.

Being straight or gay is no longer thought of as a psychiatric issue that it was in the fifties.

[Anonymous]

I also wonder whether the poster would have said the same thing about finding a therapist if OP said she was in love with DB not MB...,

[Anonymous]

You can't always have what you want. She is a heterosexual married woman who also happens to be your boss. In all these three cases you can't have her.

[Anonymous]

Well it was clear that OP expected nothing so I think that is an unfair post PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can't always have what you want. She is a heterosexual married woman who also happens to be your boss. In all these three cases you can't have her.

Did OP indicate that in her post? I must have missed that!

[Anonymous]

OP here and no, I don't need therapy just because I happen to have fallen for another woman. I also agree with whoever said that nobody would have suggested therapy if it was DB I liked.
She is heterosexual, married for 12 years with three kids. No, I am not pursuing her and I know I have to quit working for her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why a therapist? That's just silly. We fall in love with all different people in all different circumstances. Unless OP actively tries to split up the marriage or persue the MB, I don't see the problem.

OP thought she was straight. She needs a good therapist to figure out her feelings and accept who she is. The

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here and no, I don't need therapy just because I happen to have fallen for another woman. I also agree with whoever said that nobody would have suggested therapy if it was DB I liked.
She is heterosexual, married for 12 years with three kids. No, I am not pursuing her and I know I have to quit working for her.

First, yes I would have suggested therapy if you "liked" DB. As a gay woman I can tell you for a fact that you need to talk to someone about your first time interest in women. Please don't try to make this political.

[Anonymous]

I think this is a silly girl post or a troll post.


Grow up, OP. If you really have feelings for your employer you need to quit (which you know) so why post at all? Lonely today and need attention?