Affection & aggression

[Anonymous]

So my charge is special needs and of course requires plenty of attention. But my charge also can be very aggressive when things doesn't go their way. MB & DB are very loving towards their kids. Constant I love you's and endless hugs and kisses (nothing wrong with it) but my charge has used it to get out of situations with me, when requested to do things and when I don't allow him to be rewarded because he doesn't follow instructions, he throws a tantrum, and MB or DB comes running in wanting to know what's going on and rewards him with hugs and kisses making me to be the bad guy and my charge to act aggressively towards me. When I get my charge from school, his bus attendant would tell me things like when MB or DB put him on the bus he starts throwing tantrums and attacking her because he doesn't want to be bothered with her and the bus ride to school can be hectic. We've all talked to MB and DB about the situation, but they brush it off and continue to do it anyway. Should I bring this situation up again, or leave it alone?

[Anonymous]

Trust me, you won't change them.

[Anonymous]

That's a parenting issue, not SN.

[Anonymous]

how old is the child? 2 years old are always aggressive and trow tantrums it is normal. They do need hugs an kisses to calm down.

[Anonymous]

Assuming they are not putting a 2-year-old on a school bus, PP.

OP, they know it's an issue for others. They just don't care enough to change. Live with it or leave. Trying to fix them is only going to cost you a reference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how old is the child? 2 years old are always aggressive and trow tantrums it is normal. They do need hugs an kisses to calm down.

Wtf? Why would a 2 year old be riding a school bus?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how old is the child? 2 years old are always aggressive and trow tantrums it is normal. They do need hugs an kisses to calm down.

Wtf? Why would a 2 year old be riding a school bus?

It doesn't make sense as the only place that would pick up with a bus is the school system and most don't have school/bus pick up till age three. Services come to the child from 0-3.

[Anonymous]

OP here. The child well, I should say adult is 20 as stated before the charge is Special Needs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The child well, I should say adult is 20 as stated before the charge is Special Needs

Then you are a caretaker, not nanny.

[Anonymous]

What on earth sort of thread was this? A 20 year old man riding a bus and receiving hugs kisses and I loves from db and mb??? Hilarious

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What on earth sort of thread was this? A 20 year old man riding a bus and receiving hugs kisses and I loves from db and mb??? Hilarious

Obviously, the charge is physically 20 and mentally a child... think about Down syndrome.