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A friend of mine who is a SAHM watches a set of siblings every other weekend at her house. So she's not technically a nanny but I just want nannies and mb opinions on what she did this weekend.

My friend decides to pull out her wedding dress and put the 3 yr old girl she watches on weekends in it and take pictures. They are adorable pics in the wedding dress, vail and shoes. But then she decided to post them on Facebook and tag the little girls mom.

She and the mom are not that close, it's not like they are friends. MB's how would you feel if your nanny or weekend Childcare provider did this and posted the pics on Facebook. Also nannies would any of you do this ?
Anonymous
No, as a nanny I would never post photographs of my charges. Never. They are not my children and I have no right to post photographs.
Anonymous
Yes,you not do that....
Anonymous
Not allowed. It's in our contract the nanny can't post pics of kids anywhere or send to anyone but us.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not allowed. It's in our contract the nanny can't post pics of kids anywhere or send to anyone but us.


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Anonymous
She posts pics on fb of these kids all the time. I was just shocked to see the little girl in My friends wedding dress doing a photo shoot. Seemed kind of inappropriate ?
Anonymous
Myob
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Anonymous wrote:Myob

No I'm not going to. She texted me the pics last night asking if she should post them. I told her no but she did it anyway.
Anonymous
I think you should mind your own business, they are not your kids. Different people have different views on posting children's photos on Facebook. The kids' mother might be very laid back about it, you never know. I've worked both for people who wanted no mention of their children anywhere online, and those who encouraged me to create Flickr pages it to share their photos.
Anonymous
It wouldn't bother me. My child's preschool posts pics of the kids on their webpage and on Facebook all of the time. I actually like seeing them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think you should mind your own business, they are not your kids. Different people have different views on posting children's photos on Facebook. The kids' mother might be very laid back about it, you never know. I've worked both for people who wanted no mention of their children anywhere online, and those who encouraged me to create Flickr pages it to share their photos.



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I'm a nanny and I post pix of my charges all the time. I tag my MB in them and she tags me in the ones she posts.
Obviously in my case my MB is ok with it and I wouldn't post them if she didn't want me to.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She posts pics on fb of these kids all the time. I was just shocked to see the little girl in My friends wedding dress doing a photo shoot. Seemed kind of inappropriate ?


That wouldn't bother me at all. It's just like any other kind of dress-up. But I would be pissed if someone else posted pictures of my kid on FB without asking me first.
Anonymous
She tagged the mom so I assume she's ok with it.If her MB is ok with it then myob.

If you or your MB do not post pictures on line that's fine for you, but you don't get to dictate what is fine for others.

I don't understand what is bothering you about it being a wedding dress it's just dress-up play.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She tagged the mom so I assume she's ok with it.If her MB is ok with it then myob.

If you or your MB do not post pictures on line that's fine for you, but you don't get to dictate what is fine for others.

I don't understand what is bothering you about it being a wedding dress it's just dress-up play.



I simply asked a question. That is what this forum is for. I don't get why everyone keeps telling me to myob. I'm not going to mention it to my friend I was just wondering what others thought. It made me feel uncomfortable when I saw the pics on fb. Next time I have a question I won't ask here.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She tagged the mom so I assume she's ok with it.If her MB is ok with it then myob.

If you or your MB do not post pictures on line that's fine for you, but you don't get to dictate what is fine for others.

I don't understand what is bothering you about it being a wedding dress it's just dress-up play.



I simply asked a question. That is what this forum is for. I don't get why everyone keeps telling me to myob. I'm not going to mention it to my friend I was just wondering what others thought. It made me feel uncomfortable when I saw the pics on fb. Next time I have a question I won't ask here.

Sorry pp I didn't mean to respond to your post. I meant to write a new one. Oops
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