I saw your nanny - MOVED

[Anonymous]

At Barnes and Noble she was dozing off on the chair while my child and yours played.
The kids were playing well together but the place was crowded. He walked from the train table to the story time circle and back a few times then nanny woke up and started browsing on her phone.

Do you want me to contact you about it? We're acquaintances, not friends and we've had opposing points of view in a few discussions in our local list serve.

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If it were you would you say something? Would you want to know?

PS. this was posted here according to admin suggestion. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

No one cares. A nanny is not there to babysit you kid 24/7. He was safe and sound at Barnes and Noble, they got home safe and sound too. Why stir up trouble?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would want to know. Sleeping in public while a charge wanders around unattended in dangerous.

[Anonymous]

Tell her and get over yourself, troll.

[Anonymous]

Troll? Why?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I am a nanny and I would tell the mother that her child's nanny was neglecting her.

[Anonymous]

OP - there are mostly nannies on this board, hence the response that you got. I would want to know, and I think all parents would want to know. They can judge for themselves how much they care about the information, and if they want to do anything about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - there are mostly nannies on this board, hence the response that you got. I would want to know, and I think all parents would want to know. They can judge for themselves how much they care about the information, and if they want to do anything about it.

?? Dafuq? Except for one, the other replies said to tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - there are mostly nannies on this board, hence the response that you got. I would want to know, and I think all parents would want to know. They can judge for themselves how much they care about the information, and if they want to do anything about it.

Every self-described nanny on this thread said to tell the mother.

Reading comprehension is not your forte, is it?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would let the mother know for sure.

Then it is entirely up to her if she wants to keep this lazy nanny or not.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a sitter, not a nanny.

[Anonymous]

I'm a nanny and I think you should tell her. There's a lot that could go wrong. She can do whatever she wants with the information but at least she'll know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a sitter, not a nanny.

Saying that to excuse every bad nanny out there really doesn't achieve what you're hoping it will. There are bad nannies out there, just like there are bad employees in any field. My coworker dozes off in half of our meetings - does that mean he's not a "real" employee? He must be a temp, right? Cuz only temps doze on the job? Well, payroll doesn't see it that way. Not in my field and not in yours.

[Anonymous]

Heck yes I'd want to know re: the dozing off part especially.