PP? |
1. You cannot actually afford a nanny. It’s that simple. If you could, you wouldn’t be trying so hard to prove an argument. 2. Please let us know how it goes interviewing nannies during a global pandemic (not an epidemic but a pandemic; the whole freaking world is suffering right now. This is bigger than your selfish and entitled bubble.). |
What happens after two weeks? Or during Total Shutdown? |
This is my total worry. I'm a NP. If this were just two weeks, it would be one thing, but we are probably looking at two months. I have paid three times what my friends have spent in child care over the last 2.5 years so that I know I have someone who will be here when we need her. I've been flexible, paid vacation, sick leave, emergency family leave, etc. I cannot see paying my nanny's salary for two months while DH and I burn all our leave and hopefully not all of our bridges! We are a total closed loop, not seeing anyone but nanny and not going anywhere. If she decides not to come, I am leaning towards two weeks severance and a lay off where she can get unemployment. Potentially we rehire her after this is all over. |
If this continues, a point will come where there is no more money. There just isn't. Depend upon it that when faced with a choice to pay their mortgage or to pay their nanny, the parents will choose their mortgage. It's not a criticism toward the nanny. There is no more money. |
Not sure if I should go to work (employers not first responders) which doesn't mean their jobs are not important but also want to do my part to flatten the curve. Believe I know they can't pay me indefinitely if I can't work. I paid two months rent ahead of time (I know I'm lucky I can do that) and paid my car note ahead of time. Everyday is something different so just taking it day by day. |
In this situation, you would end up homeless. A nanny would be the least of your worries. |