I don't flash perks because I don't want to attract the wrong type of AP. ESPECIALLY in the connection request or early stages...
I have been doing this for 8 years. I just matched with another agency, but came close with two AP candidates from CC. I didn't flash any perks just was open and honest about our family. Either they want you as you are or they don't. |
We’ve heard stories of other families on non-anonymous forums (Facebook groups) with incredibly entitled au pairs. No, I’ll pass on the type that will coach my 1 year old into telling mommy and daddy that AP “really needs” an Apple Watch for Christmas... |
I also emailed my thoughts to CCAP and didn't hear back. Which is rich, given that my biggest complaint is lack of response from the APs. |
Ha. I would add lack of responsiveness from CCAP staff as well. They’re awful! I specifically emailed the program director to ask what resources or support are available to a family in rematch and I’ve heard...NOTHING. Which I guess answers the question. |
How can you tell if they've logged in or not? Definitely struggling and trying to figure out how to get the system moving along this time around! |
It’s under contact information. Shows last log in. Very informative. |
Thank you! |
We just matched with a high quality candidate (elementary school teacher) who ccap thinks has the record for denied connections. She was always maxed out; but denied 19 connection requests during her time available.
Our second choice only had us as a connection; but was also an awesome candidate. I think some candidates just appeal to a lot more families for whatever reason; and are harder to get to. |
Hi CCAP staff person ![]() |
I am frustrated by the never ending Cultural Care Instagram story about a beautiful family in California that make me (overweight and middle aged ![]() |
I'm the OP of this thread and just matched. AP seems wonderful but I'm a bit worried we rushed the process because I was just sick of searching. Also, we were the first family she spoke with and I think that helped a lot, as she was also overwhelmed once she started getting a ton of family requests. I was not happy with the process this year but I'm hopeful it was all worth it.
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Great news! How long was the total matching process for you? |
About 6 weeks of searching the website multiple times a day, reaching about to about 15 candidates and having proper exchanges with 3 of them. |
I feel your pain. We just matched as well but started this process the end January. I feel as though all my time for the past 2 months has been consumed of looking online at applications and setting up weekend Skype calls. I took about a 2 week break of doing almost nothing. I reached out to 25-30 applicants. Was probably accepted 50% of the time. We actually Skyped with 8 candidates. Tried to match with 2 candidates but ended up being second choice for both and finally matched with a second choice of ours but we were her first choice. OY! We were first time host families last year and it was just a much better process. I was highly aggravated but this years process. |
So how did you get the candidate? How did you beat out everyone else? |