Anyone else get fed up when MB treats you like a nobody?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

" Her job is what I so in my free time". You mean parenting and raising your child? That is what you should be doing 24/7. Your nanny deserves better.

+1. You chose to have a child and hire a nanny to care for her/him. So because she has time to enjoy restaurants and have a social life or downtime you don't have any respect for her? Are you jealous you no longer enjoy what she does? You chose to have a child which means you chose the lifestyle that accompanies it. Are you angry because your nanny isn't miserable like you are??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

" Her job is what I so in my free time". You mean parenting and raising your child? That is what you should be doing 24/7. Your nanny deserves better.

+1. You chose to have a child and hire a nanny to care for her/him. So because she has time to enjoy restaurants and have a social life or downtime you don't have any respect for her? Are you jealous you no longer enjoy what she does? You chose to have a child which means you chose the lifestyle that accompanies it. Are you angry because your nanny isn't miserable like you are??

She may have a high power job but she is a weak person. Very ugly on the inside.

[Anonymous]

Who hurt you Pp? Did your mother not hug you enough?
Is your husband cheating on you??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

" Her job is what I so in my free time". You mean parenting and raising your child? That is what you should be doing 24/7. Your nanny deserves better.

+1

[Anonymous]

Subject: Anyone else get fed up when MB treats you like a nobody?

Yes. I have had 3 different employers as a nanny. One mom tends to treat me disrespectfully. But she also treats her kids disrespectfully. She is just a generally rude and unhappy person. {How hard is it to say thank you or I appreciate you??????? And what is with the eye rolling and heavy sighs while you fill out my check??????) But really, we don't interact with each other all that much, so I don't lose a whole lot of sleep over it. The dad treats me with respect.

The other two families I have worked for treated me like gold.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

" Her job is what I so in my free time". You mean parenting and raising your child? That is what you should be doing 24/7. Your nanny deserves better.

+1. You chose to have a child and hire a nanny to care for her/him. So because she has time to enjoy restaurants and have a social life or downtime you don't have any respect for her? Are you jealous you no longer enjoy what she does? You chose to have a child which means you chose the lifestyle that accompanies it. Are you angry because your nanny isn't miserable like you are??

She may have a high power job but she is a weak person. Very ugly on the inside.

I don't have a high power job. That was another poster. I am a family practice doctor in a small town in Nebraska. I am not jealous of my nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

" Her job is what I so in my free time". You mean parenting and raising your child? That is what you should be doing 24/7. Your nanny deserves better.

+1. You chose to have a child and hire a nanny to care for her/him. So because she has time to enjoy restaurants and have a social life or downtime you don't have any respect for her? Are you jealous you no longer enjoy what she does? You chose to have a child which means you chose the lifestyle that accompanies it. Are you angry because your nanny isn't miserable like you are??

This explains why you're so miserable. Got it.


She may have a high power job but she is a weak person. Very ugly on the inside.

I don't have a high power job. That was another poster. I am a family practice doctor in a small town in Nebraska. I am not jealous of my nanny.

[Anonymous]

OP,only you have the power to stop your employer from abusing you by quitting. You need assertiveness training. Stop being a doormat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like my nanny, and I consider us friends, but frankly, her job is literally what I do in my free time. And I do it better. In her free time, she seems to join a lot of clubs, go to a lot of restaurants, and watch a lot of TV, which is great and sounds like fun, but not something I have a ton of respect for.
My previous nanny was a catholic school teacher who had raised 5 children into adulthood. I did actually have a lot of respect for her, but we moved, and I ended up with not a lot of time to search for a new nanny and found someone more run of the mill. She sounds better than a lot of nannies on here though. At least she doesn't refer to my children as "difficult," and she seems to genuinely care about them.

If you can do a better job taking care of your children, then you should stay at home and do the job yourself.