Nanny slept with my husband..

[Anonymous]

My husband and I are interviewing nannies for position. We interviewed a lively woman and I expressed my interest in hiring her. My husband kept making excuses as to why we shouldn't. Last night we got into an argument and he confessed that he had dated the girl a few years back. I am assuming they most likely had slept together. Thankfully I know now and she is off the table, but we haven't found anyone else that I like. Would it be odd to hire her? I know they dates briefly many years ago.

[Anonymous]

Ugh please stop trolling

[Anonymous]

Oh, and if you're not a troll - you're an idiot

[Anonymous]

Hilarious. But yes, you're clearly a troll.

[Anonymous]

He wasn't your husband at the time! but yes, obvious troll is obvious.

[Anonymous]

You should definitely hire her, maybe you will like her too and you guys will have a lovely menage a trois !

[Anonymous]

Love how you are so quick to call troll. I am not one but believe what you want. I realize and respect my husband has a past. She is a great and currently engaged. I have a great marriage and trust my husband.

[Anonymous]

You're ridiculous. Sure - go ahead and hire her. That sounds like a really smart marital decision and your husband is obviously totally comfortable with it.

Of course, this is all occurring only in your imaginary playland of a world...

[Anonymous]

Your husband said don't hire her. Listen to him you should both be on the same page.

[Anonymous]

This is the worst attempt at trying to fool us fools that I have ever seen.

Most definitely a fake story.

Not even a good fake story.

[Anonymous]

LOL It's not like you met this so called lovely woman at a family reunion! Out of all the occupations on this world she just happens to be a nanny.youusy really be bored to come up with this bold faced lie. lol lol

[Anonymous]

meant to say in this world

[Anonymous]

I've dated men from my past who are now married with children. It is possible to interview for someone you previously slept with. But if I knew beforehand it was one of them, hell no would I go on the interview.

[Anonymous]

No, don't let down your morals for that reason. If you don't take a stand for what you feel and how much you except in relationship, you will except anything. I can understand the past is the past and we may have sleopt with other peolpe before you or you before him, but he shoul've told you no she wouldn't work because he had a past relationship with her. But now that you know, leave it in the past, move forward but have curtain standards for the type of person that you both will hire. Talk about it , write it down and if need be post the kind of person you are looking for, break it down, I need a nanny that is.........and I will not except..........It sound a little harsh ,but it's better to be up front on what you want. And have some questions that you would ask that would satisfy you! Keep open communication going with husband, don't let untrust come into your home. Both of you talk and come to an agreement on the kind of person that you both will have in your home, OK!

[Anonymous]

Be wise DO NOT HIRE HER