Nanny just quit

[Anonymous]

I want to cry.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry. Things weren't working out or she just wanted to move on? I hope you find another nanny soon that is a good fit for your family. Best of luck.

[Anonymous]

OP here. She's leaving for other pursuits. It was so stressful for us to find a nanny. It makes me want to throw up that we have to do it again.

[Anonymous]

How long was she with your family?

[Anonymous]

A little over a year. We really liked her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A little over a year. We really liked her.

I'm sorry OP. Hopefully she gave you enough notice so you have time to find another nanny for your family. Don't stress- you will find someone. I know you probably feel like your world is falling apart right now but things will get better. Hang in there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She's leaving for other pursuits. It was so stressful for us to find a nanny. It makes me want to throw up that we have to do it again.

How dare she want to pursue something better for her and leave you in such a bind. I think you can guarantee that she wanted to pursue a job not working for you. This is the oldest excuse in the world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She's leaving for other pursuits. It was so stressful for us to find a nanny. It makes me want to throw up that we have to do it again.

How dare she want to pursue something better for her and leave you in such a bind. I think you can guarantee that she wanted to pursue a job not working for you. This is the oldest excuse in the world.

Oh shut up. That doesn't help OP. Believe it or not, you actually have no idea whether this nanny was telling the truth, but it just didn't occur to you to shut your mouth did it?

[Anonymous]

This is OP. She is taking a job in a field she has been studying while being our nanny. I am not mad at her for leaving - I'm sad for us and for our baby. We really liked her. And I'm stressed about finding another nanny. It wasn't an easy process the first time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She's leaving for other pursuits. It was so stressful for us to find a nanny. It makes me want to throw up that we have to do it again.

How dare she want to pursue something better for her and leave you in such a bind. I think you can guarantee that she wanted to pursue a job not working for you. This is the oldest excuse in the world.

Omg, shut up you freaks...... OP didn't diss her nanny for wanting to leave. All she said was she wanted to cry, feels like throwing up, etc.. Nothing negative about nanny getting a better opportunity..

It's spazes like you that remind me why I don't hire strangers to care for my children.

OP, it'll be okay.. Also, ignore the idiots!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She's leaving for other pursuits. It was so stressful for us to find a nanny. It makes me want to throw up that we have to do it again.

How dare she want to pursue something better for her and leave you in such a bind. I think you can guarantee that she wanted to pursue a job not working for you. This is the oldest excuse in the world.

Oh get real...we nannies come on here to vent when being let go so why is it not okay for a parent to do the same?

[Anonymous]

OP, how much notice did you get?

[Anonymous]

I know it's a pain OP. It's a painful process for us nannies when we have to seek new employment. Good luck to you and I hope you will find the right person without to much time or drudgery. FWIW, I took a break from nannying to try something different (retail sales) and HATED it! Why? I missed being with children during the day. Anyway, once again, good luck to you.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP. I'm sure the thought of finding and adjusting to a new nanny are a serious bummer.

I wish you an easy search and a good nanny find!

If it's any consolation, the nanny job search is similarly frustrating and time consuming. I feel your pain.

[Anonymous]

OP, if she just quit w/out any notice, then it would be a very safe bet that she isn't happy w/your family and there was some type of issue going on that she didn't think could be resolved.
As a nanny, I have had many jobs where I HATED waking up every day and cried in my car driving home. I eventually reached a point where I just couldn't take it anymore and just quit on the spot.

However if she gave at least a 2-wk notice, then hopefully in that short time you can find someone good.
Try Care.com and/or sittercity.com of if you can afford it, an agency would be an even better idea.

There are many good and competent nannies out there.
I hope you can snag yourself one.

Keep your chin up.