I am wondering if I should buy mb a gift for her bday? I have only been working for this family for 3 months so maybe something handmade for her from the kids is more appropriate? Handprint art or something. What do you do for your mb bday? |
Don't buy her a gift, from experience I can say most parents will be gracious, but feel very awkward about it.
I would DEFINITELY make a gift for her "from the charges", especially if they are young. Maybe a t-shirt if she's into that kind of stuff? Make "flowers", their handprints will be the petals, and feet the leaf. |
MB here. My nanny gave me b'day gifts and they were lovely, and thoughtful, but yes - I felt very awkward about it. I think helping the kids make a gift is a lovely idea and I would appreciate the thought and effort that goes into that as much as any gift (and I'd feel more comfortable accepting it also.) |
Honestly, give me the gift of taking the kids out of the house, so I can take a bubble bath, nap and have sex with DH. That would be the best present. |
No present needed or expected. |
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