Is it fair to be upset with nanny

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again here, thanks for your feedback. I just found out today that the pictures she’s taking of DC during the day (hasn’t asked permission to do this, and it’s made me nervous since we don’t know her well) she’s been sharing with a contact who recommended her to us but without asking our permission.

OP, While I definitely think you need to get rid of this Nanny for purely creepy reasons, I don’t necessarily think her sharing photos w/a mutual person whom you both know is that wrong.

I don’t necessarily think it is a wise idea considering her other behaviors however just this one thing isn’t (to me!) very significant.

I work w/families where I was a referral to & I will sometimes share cute pictures of my new Nanny kids w/the family who referred me just to show how great things are working out or how cute the kids are, etc.

Usually our mutual contact enjoys receiving these pics since they technically know my current family.

I get that the mutual contact likes it, but does your nanny family like it? Do you ask them before just sending pictures to your mutual contact?

[Anonymous]

Honestly she sounds amazing and like she CARES. Not all Nannie’s are like this op. You hit the jackpot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again here, thanks for your feedback. I just found out today that the pictures she’s taking of DC during the day (hasn’t asked permission to do this, and it’s made me nervous since we don’t know her well) she’s been sharing with a contact who recommended her to us but without asking our permission.

Done. Find someone else. There are too many red flags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again here, thanks for your feedback. I just found out today that the pictures she’s taking of DC during the day (hasn’t asked permission to do this, and it’s made me nervous since we don’t know her well) she’s been sharing with a contact who recommended her to us but without asking our permission.

You sound like a helicopter. People share photos. Unless they are inappropriate this wouldn’t bother me.

[Anonymous]

I honestly don’t think that’s an issue unless they aren’t appropriate pictures it’s fine

[Anonymous]

OP, you sound very insecure and like someone for whom daycare would be a better fit.

[Anonymous]

I hope she leaves before you can leave her! I would love for a nanny to be this way with my kids!