Nanny Shadow Morning - Pay

[Anonymous]

Pay her. I accepted a newborn care specialist job and went in to shadow their previous ncs. The balked at paying me... I didn't have the energy to fight even though I could have. I declined their offer and then they had to start their search over from scratch. To me it was a red flag.

[Anonymous]

Definitely full rate. Can you imagine going to training for your job and them paying you half?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm confused. Why is she only watching, but not doing anything? This is your chance to have your current nanny let you know whether the new nanny might work out or will definitely be a dud.

What’s a dud nanny?

Someone who won’t interact with the child beyond the minimum. Someone who doesn’t do much of anything. The current nanny can see how the new starts and tell OP if there are any red flags.

[Anonymous]

Exactly. OP -- When you started you job, did you get paid 1/2 the first few days? Or did you get that full salary + benefits & sign on bonus from day 1?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Exactly. OP -- When you started you job, did you get paid 1/2 the first few days? Or did you get that full salary + benefits & sign on bonus from day 1?

And why wouldn’t you want to do sometime to dip her toe in anyway?

[Anonymous]

You’re paying $25/hour, the difference you’re talking about is like $50 if you’re talking 4 hours and you want to start off your brand new relationship with your nanny by possibly having her feel aggrieved? It doesn’t matter if it would be justifiable to pay her 50%, it would be a totally stupid move on your part. You might alienate the person who will watch your kids when you’re not there on day 1 for $50 or 2 hours of pay? Why? What are you thinking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nanny here. It's nice from her to offer to shadow your current nanny. One or two mornings should be enough though.

I'd pay her the full rate, it's her time and you don't want to start on the wrong foot here. I can't believe you even thought about shortchanging her ...

Well said.