au pairs and dieting

[Anonymous]

Unclench. Like everyone has told you, you need boundaries. That she lives at your house doesn’t mean you own her.

If it’s such a big issue for you, get an overweight AP next time.

[Anonymous]

I appreciate everyone's input and definitely will not speak to our AP about it. For those who say I have boundary issues--please note that I did not *act* on anything. I turned to this forum for guidance to check myself and I appreciate the insight from those who were able to recognize that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unclench. Like everyone has told you, you need boundaries. That she lives at your house doesn’t mean you own her.

If it’s such a big issue for you, get an overweight AP next time.

Hmmmmm...never said that (OP). Also don't know what the relevance is of the AP's weight?????