Op is not being nosey. She asked for similar experiences and stories and said nothing about talking to the parents about it. Can you read? |
| Simulating sex?? My word. Lol. The rest of it, I wish I had your bosses. Lol |
| I hear about parents drinking, yelling, making siblings cry, and hitting the kids. Guess what? I know it’s all exaggeration. I live with them, so when a child is crying and a sibling tells me it’s because the parent hit the child, I already heard the whole thing, and I know the crying child was removed to their room for misbehaving. Kids want sympathy, they want to feel like they’re important, and once in a blue moon they want to band together against all adults to try and get their way. Oh, and they can’t keep secrets for anything! |
| I did a nanny share with a boy and girl. The girl was about one and the boy around two and a half, but extremely articulate. He looks at the girl when I changed her diaper and said she doesn’t have a toocus! (His word for penis.) She has a not toocus! I explained boys have a penis and girl don’t and he proceeded to tell me that his mom has a toocus and it has moss growing on it! |
| Very funny. However, I learned very early arriving in this country that the people here express themselves very freely. And they don't care what they say or whom ears personal information is subjected to. |