Have you ever had a really attractive nanny ?

[Anonymous]

My nanny is slim but not all that pretty. More cute then anything but she looks years younger than her age (33) so DH who is 50 just sees her as a kid sister

[Anonymous]

Our nanny is lovely and a former model. Now she is 62 and still is lovely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My nanny is slim but not all that pretty. More cute then anything but she looks years younger than her age (33) so DH who is 50 just sees her as a kid sister

That's kind of a mean thing to say. Hopefully your dh cheats on you. You sound nasty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think it is so much self-esteem that should matter in deciding on whether to hire an attractive Nanny or not.

It is just always best to exercise good judgment in general, and good judgment = Using good common sense.

Even if you 100% trust your husband & are secure in your marriage to him, why invite trouble on purpose??!

Everyone just KNOWS that men are visual creatures and a pretty girl thrown into the picture just will not bode well for the wife no matter what.

Why deliberately go searching for trouble??

Just my two cents here.

So all women are incapable of acting appropriately when they are menstruating, because they are ruled by hormones? And nobody should expect them to even try?

Looking is one thing. Men are first attracted visually, but they are quite capable of making a choice. Not only are they capable of doing it once, they can have the same choice multiple times per day everyday for years and not cheat. Cheaters are the aberration, not men who don't cheat.

[Anonymous]

MB here. We have had four nannies over the years and each one has been very pretty. Two even gorgeous (cat call on the street while pushing the stroller or attempted pick ups while shopping with the kids gorgeous). Never gave it a thought re DH + nanny and it was a non-issue all those years. I guess you need to know your situation and act accordingly. I trust my husband and I definitely trusted the nannies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's funny, because we are currently looking for a new nanny for when we move, and for some reason I am more interested in the attractive candidates! (I'm a straight woman). Our current nanny is pretty but kind of heavy and not at all my husband's type. Some of our current candidates are his type (i.e. they're basically younger, sometimes prettier versions of myself). While I'm not one to test fate and I can get jealous, I guess I'm assuming that whoever we choose will be mature enough to not make a pass at my husband. Plus I don't think my husband is dumb enough to think about cheating, especially with the nanny. So we might very well end up with a very attractive nanny and I don't think it will be an issue. Plus, we're moving to the beach, so I figure our future neighbors can thank me.

You wouldn’t be the first wife to make this mistake. Don’t hire a younger version of his type to be in your household for 45+ hours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our nanny is lovely and a former model. Now she is 62 and still is lovely.

You and the one with the manny are being silly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:MB here. We have had four nannies over the years and each one has been very pretty. Two even gorgeous (cat call on the street while pushing the stroller or attempted pick ups while shopping with the kids gorgeous). Never gave it a thought re DH + nanny and it was a non-issue all those years. I guess you need to know your situation and act accordingly. I trust my husband and I definitely trusted the nannies.

I would have said the same thing when we were in the market for nannies but I know of three lovely professional women that have lost their once- trustworthy husbands to a younger, prettier nanny. Mind you, these nannies had a lot going for them in looks, smarts and personality. All were college grads and could hold their own in a conversation. It shocked all of us. Why bring trouble into your home when you have other choices?

[Anonymous]

Our nanny is very pretty. Doesn't bother me in the slightest and I've never once been concerned. Actually, thinking about it now, if something ever happens to me I hope DH does take up with the nanny! I wouldn't have to worry about my kids having some awful stepmom.

[Anonymous]

I think the bored trolls from the other parts of this site have found the nanny forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think it is so much self-esteem that should matter in deciding on whether to hire an attractive Nanny or not.

It is just always best to exercise good judgment in general, and good judgment = Using good common sense.

Even if you 100% trust your husband & are secure in your marriage to him, why invite trouble on purpose??!

Everyone just KNOWS that men are visual creatures and a pretty girl thrown into the picture just will not bode well for the wife no matter what.

Why deliberately go searching for trouble??

Just my two cents here.

So all women are incapable of acting appropriately when they are menstruating, because they are ruled by hormones? And nobody should expect them to even try?

Not all nannies want to bang your husband. I’ve been hit on by a former boss. Never did I want to sleep with any of them. Some of you women are idiots. Not every pretty nanny wants to bang your husband. I don’t think being pretty has anything to do with it. Look at Arnold Schwartznagger? Most men who heat will cheat with anyone. Either you married someone faithful or not. You don’t need a nanny for your husband to decide he wants to cheat. He will get that from other places.

Looking is one thing. Men are first attracted visually, but they are quite capable of making a choice. Not only are they capable of doing it once, they can have the same choice multiple times per day everyday for years and not cheat. Cheaters are the aberration, not men who don't cheat.

[Anonymous]

We had a beautiful nanny. She could've been in the magazines too. She was aware she was beautiful.

At the end of the day, it was not an issue.

Looks don't make a relationship. If so all the beautiful models would be the happiest people in the world.

If husband was the kind to be remotely attracted to the nanny and do something about it, he would've cheated at work, elsewhere.

People with good character don't invite trouble. There is more to looks in the world.

Now if your family is lacking in the character department, I would think twice.

[Anonymous]

Honestly your husband might find a pretty nanny attractive, but working in someone's home allows the nanny to see their bosses disgusting habits front and center- the poop that doesn't get flushed, dirty boxers on the floor, crumbs on the chair, etc. For that reason alone I'd never worry about a huband and nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's funny, because we are currently looking for a new nanny for when we move, and for some reason I am more interested in the attractive candidates! (I'm a straight woman). Our current nanny is pretty but kind of heavy and not at all my husband's type. Some of our current candidates are his type (i.e. they're basically younger, sometimes prettier versions of myself). While I'm not one to test fate and I can get jealous, I guess I'm assuming that whoever we choose will be mature enough to not make a pass at my husband. Plus I don't think my husband is dumb enough to think about cheating, especially with the nanny. So we might very well end up with a very attractive nanny and I don't think it will be an issue. Plus, we're moving to the beach, so I figure our future neighbors can thank me.

You wouldn’t be the first wife to make this mistake. Don’t hire a younger version of his type to be in your household for 45+ hours.

Women could be making passes at your husband anytime. It's how he would react that should concern you.

[Anonymous]

From a very attractive nanny’s point of view, trust me, you don’t ever have to worry about me screwing your husband. I’ve had attractive DB’s but have never even remotely thought about so much as flirting with them. Why? Because I’m a professional. It shouldn’t matter if she’s attractive. You should be looking for someone professional with a good head on her shoulders, and supermodel or not, she won’t do anything with your creepy husbands, even if offered.