Bully nanny

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:4 years is a lot. It's too long to work for the same family, things always get worse with time. Families asking for more things, nannies being tired ...

I only stay with families until kids go to school, 2 years is enough for me.

And if the child doesn't start preschool until 2.5, 3, 4 or waits for kindergarten? What if there is another child?

[Anonymous]

She doesn't sound like a bully, she seems fed up. As others have said, how have you been treating her lately?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 years is a lot. It's too long to work for the same family, things always get worse with time. Families asking for more things, nannies being tired ...

I only stay with families until kids go to school, 2 years is enough for me.

This makes no sense. Firstly, we have had the same nanny for SIX years. Secondly, our nanny has less to do with our oldest in school. Thirdly, my kids did not go to school at age 2. What are you talking about?

This makes no sense TO YOU.
I stay with families until the kids turn 3 and go to school.
So I stay for a maximum of 2 to 3 years.
Then I am not interested in less hours and I like to move on because after a while it ALWAYS get worse at some point.
Less hours because kids are in school means the parents will ask more chores to be completed and I am not a housekeeper.

[Anonymous]

OP,
Please give us an update!

So are you actually going to go ahead & fire her stat??!

I suspected so from your last posting, but wasn’t quite sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 years is a lot. It's too long to work for the same family, things always get worse with time. Families asking for more things, nannies being tired ...

I only stay with families until kids go to school, 2 years is enough for me.

This makes no sense. Firstly, we have had the same nanny for SIX years. Secondly, our nanny has less to do with our oldest in school. Thirdly, my kids did not go to school at age 2. What are you talking about?

This makes no sense TO YOU.
I stay with families until the kids turn 3 and go to school.
So I stay for a maximum of 2 to 3 years.
Then I am not interested in less hours and I like to move on because after a while it ALWAYS get worse at some point.
Less hours because kids are in school means the parents will ask more chores to be completed and I am not a housekeeper.

Do you discuss this during the interview?

What if they have another child in that 2-3 years?

[Anonymous]

OP here. She is going to move on but stay until January. It’s not the money or the hours. She just doesn’t like me (she didn’t say that but think it’s obvious at this point). Not sure why but it is what it is. It was amicable and it’s sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. She is going to move on but stay until January. It’s not the money or the hours. She just doesn’t like me (she didn’t say that but think it’s obvious at this point). Not sure why but it is what it is. It was amicable and it’s sad.

I know it's hard, OP, but it is for the best. Stay in good terms so she can transition slowly out of your kid's lives and speak well of her to the kids. I hope you find a great nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 years is a lot. It's too long to work for the same family, things always get worse with time. Families asking for more things, nannies being tired ...

I only stay with families until kids go to school, 2 years is enough for me.

This makes no sense. Firstly, we have had the same nanny for SIX years. Secondly, our nanny has less to do with our oldest in school. Thirdly, my kids did not go to school at age 2. What are you talking about?

This makes no sense TO YOU.
I stay with families until the kids turn 3 and go to school.
So I stay for a maximum of 2 to 3 years.
Then I am not interested in less hours and I like to move on because after a while it ALWAYS get worse at some point.
Less hours because kids are in school means the parents will ask more chores to be completed and I am not a housekeeper.

Still. Not ALL children go to school at 2 or 3 years old. And in some families there is more than one child. If there are three children, three years apart, all starting school at age 3, you'd be there more than a half a decade per your rules, right?

[Anonymous]

OP what you did? I hope she quits