This should have been a new thread since it is not related to AP trying to down play being attractive.
To respond to the 10:37 PP, you may have found a great candidate, but one thing I would be concerned with and you should try to determine as best as possible is - what are her real motives for becoming an AP? Is she only doing it to try and grow her Instagram base? |
You have got to be kidding. Ran as fast as you can away from that instagram “influencer”. |
+100 |
+1000000 No way no how. |
Damn. Good thing your wife keeps your balls in her purse for safekeeping. |
Are you guys old? I’m on my early 30s and I think and influencer AP could be great. Young entrepreneur with a focus on fitness what’s not to like |
same! seems like she'd be high energy which could be good for the little ones to be around. (i'm 40, btw) |
Or she spends most of her time on her instagram, shares her (and you) life with half of the world and worries more about her fitness focus and her "influencerness" than taking care of your children. I see far too much drama in a situation like that. |
Mid 30s and I like my home life private, not splashed all over social media. In fact, we tell APs they cannot post any pics of our kids on social media. |
We are on ap 6 and it is amazing how things have changed. Facebook was the goto when we started to have insight into candidates but now it is snap or insta.
Now Facebook alerts users when people visit their profile or view pics so you have to be careful if you even look up a candidate there. They will think you are stalking them. Last year I googled a candidate and clicked on her LinkedIn profile. She dropped us the next day. If you can see their insta account I think it is better than not knowing anything about them. Better to have the “problem” of being a hot fitness addict open to public than a private account of pictures of a candidate smoking, partying or doing drugs. |
You flatter yourself, PP. |