S/O Should a nanny take a charges picture off her wallpaper when caring for a different charge?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who uses a picture of someone else's kid as a screensaver or background on *anything* is weird. Don't do it. It's not your kid weirdos.

Grow up, PP.

uh, ok. I don't put other people's kids on my phone and *I'm* the one who needs to grow up? Huh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who uses a picture of someone else's kid as a screensaver or background on *anything* is weird. Don't do it. It's not your kid weirdos.

Grow up, PP.

uh, ok. I don't put other people's kids on my phone and *I'm* the one who needs to grow up? Huh.

nP here and yes, you need to grow up. Stop calling people you disagree with childish names like "weirdo" and learn to accept different points of view.

For the record, my child's nanny has my child's picture as her wallpaper and I feel blessed that nanny thinks so highly of my child. My child loves to see the picture of nanny and herself! And none of us are "weirdos".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who uses a picture of someone else's kid as a screensaver or background on *anything* is weird. Don't do it. It's not your kid weirdos.

Grow up, PP.

uh, ok. I don't put other people's kids on my phone and *I'm* the one who needs to grow up? Huh.

nP here and yes, you need to grow up. Stop calling people you disagree with childish names like "weirdo" and learn to accept different points of view.

For the record, my child's nanny has my child's picture as her wallpaper and I feel blessed that nanny thinks so highly of my child. My child loves to see the picture of nanny and herself! And none of us are "weirdos".

You're ALL weirdos. Sorry to be the one to break it to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who uses a picture of someone else's kid as a screensaver or background on *anything* is weird. Don't do it. It's not your kid weirdos.

Grow up, PP.

uh, ok. I don't put other people's kids on my phone and *I'm* the one who needs to grow up? Huh.

nP here and yes, you need to grow up. Stop calling people you disagree with childish names like "weirdo" and learn to accept different points of view.

For the record, my child's nanny has my child's picture as her wallpaper and I feel blessed that nanny thinks so highly of my child. My child loves to see the picture of nanny and herself! And none of us are "weirdos".

You're ALL weirdos. Sorry to be the one to break it to you.

NP here to beg you to stop embarrassing yourself, PP. Just stop.

[Anonymous]

First I find it unprofessional that you use your charge's pic as a wallpaper.
Second I find it weird that you use other people's child as your screensaver. I would dislike it if I am the mom no matter how much I like u as my nanny.
Third I would fire you if I was your weekend MB. Your attitude isn't inspiring at all, and wouldn't want my child in your care. Ever

Ps I am a sitter. Please leave that weekend job for the sake of the other kid you dislike so much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First I find it unprofessional that you use your charge's pic as a wallpaper.
Second I find it weird that you use other people's child as your screensaver. I would dislike it if I am the mom no matter how much I like u as my nanny.
Third I would fire you if I was your weekend MB. Your attitude isn't inspiring at all, and wouldn't want my child in your care. Ever

Ps I am a sitter. Please leave that weekend job for the sake of the other kid you dislike so much.

Not OP, but I'm quite willing to refute your sanctimonious argument.

First, I took the picture of my former NKs and DB, and he sent it to me specifically so that I could put it on my phone lock screen AT HIS REQUEST. He knew that having a current photo immediately available was important in case of an emergency. He knows I love the kids and made sure I knew that it was my choice of whether to take it off my background (I haven't yet).

Second, it's not your business. You aren't my employer.

Third, the weekend MB either can't find anyone else or doesn't consider having another NK as background a hiring offense. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find the right fit?

Fourth, please, continue sitting. Many nannies are capable of disliking a child and yet providing excellent, nurturing care. Sometimes they know the child will drive away everyone else, or maybe they know the parent won't screen adequately for experience with a certain issue. It's a choice we can choose to make, sticking with a difficult child and trying to make the situation better for all, while knowing that it is in the child's best interest.

To callously judge someone you don't know and impose your will on them... good luck with your life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First I find it unprofessional that you use your charge's pic as a wallpaper.
Second I find it weird that you use other people's child as your screensaver. I would dislike it if I am the mom no matter how much I like u as my nanny.
Third I would fire you if I was your weekend MB. Your attitude isn't inspiring at all, and wouldn't want my child in your care. Ever

Ps I am a sitter. Please leave that weekend job for the sake of the other kid you dislike so much.

Not OP, but I'm quite willing to refute your sanctimonious argument.

First, I took the picture of my former NKs and DB, and he sent it to me specifically so that I could put it on my phone lock screen AT HIS REQUEST. He knew that having a current photo immediately available was important in case of an emergency. He knows I love the kids and made sure I knew that it was my choice of whether to take it off my background (I haven't yet).

Second, it's not your business. You aren't my employer.

Third, the weekend MB either can't find anyone else or doesn't consider having another NK as background a hiring offense. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find the right fit?

Fourth, please, continue sitting. Many nannies are capable of disliking a child and yet providing excellent, nurturing care. Sometimes they know the child will drive away everyone else, or maybe they know the parent won't screen adequately for experience with a certain issue. It's a choice we can choose to make, sticking with a difficult child and trying to make the situation better for all, while knowing that it is in the child's best interest.

To callously judge someone you don't know and impose your will on them... good luck with your life.

+1 Who is this babysitter with so much venom toward a nanny with a picture on her phone?! Talk about striking a nerve...