Do I buy a gift for a wedding I'll be accompanying NF to?
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Anonymous
You are an a**hole. |
Anonymous
Why are they an asshole? We all tend to overestimate our importance. No one will even really notice she's there, and they certainly won't notice if she gives a gift or not. She's there to work. |
Anonymous
"You are the help. Nothing more." A**hole. |
Anonymous
| My feeling is that the couple would not be expecting anything from you, but particularly given that you are fond of them, they would be touched if you did get some token gift. I think even $30 is more than you need to spend, though. |
Anonymous
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this thread is full of crazy responses. glad I scrolled down to read realistic answers.
1. I understand that they are all in the wedding, but my goodness family members can't help out with the younger charge since its a family event? weird 2. you and the sister have become friendly YET she did not invite you to the wedding. you are there as an employee. 3. do not buy a gift. why was this even a question. And if your mb and db found out that you did they are jerks if they let you gift it vs telling you to return it and get your $ back and they know that sis would appreciate the gesture. 4. are you allowed to bring a plus 1? didn't think so. |
Anonymous
| No gift! |
Anonymous
| I would not bring a gift. If you are working, then the MB and DB can give some extra from the family to cover your meal. |