If your employer send you home early without pay then that's your job issues. Why are you crying here go talk to your boss. |
She doesn't need to have a track record of keeping one nanny for seven years for her opinion to be of consequence. Not everyone WANTS the same nanny for seven years. In fact, the engagement that long is closer to the exception rather than the rule. |
OP, I wouldn't start looking more than 2 months out. We tried in the past starting earlier and all the great candidates got snatched up--they didn't want to wait that long to start working. In my experience most (not all, but most) nannies who are looking for a new job want one ASAP.
I think you are fine to offer one week vacation of her choice as long as you are letting her take off the time when you are on vacation, and paying her for it of course. We do two weeks, week between Christmas and New Year's and a week of her choice, which is pretty standard. But she gets a ton of extra vacation in addition to that. You didn't mention sick days for the nanny but I would also offer 5 or so paid sick days. You don't want her to feel compelled to work when she's sick. We have never had a nanny take advantage of that; the good ones won't and I think paid sick time is very important at any job. Yes nannies will normally care for sick children but I've often taken that time off when my child is really miserable--they just want a parent which I understand. I would personally not feel comfortable leaving a vomiting child with my nanny, I think that goes above and beyond the call of duty for her. Good luck! |
PP here. I also wanted to add--check references very carefully and I also recommend Googling the references' names. We have had two cases of nanny applicants who faked their references which was quite unsettling. One we were very close to hiring. |
YES check references diligently, but also be sure to have a probationary period. I'm not a nanny any longer and when I switched careers the nanny that got hired after me seemed great. She came from the same agency and had seemingly great references.
Then a week passed and on Friday afternoon she explained that she had diagnosed the baby with some disorder because he cried all the time and she could never make him stop. To my MB pediatrician, she gave this analysis. Then explained how her PTSD made the crying difficult and sometimes she forgot where she was. DEAR LORD. So anyway, be prepared to make sure things are going well for the first few weeks as well as doing your due diligence during hiring. |