How to separate from our nanny?

[Anonymous]

Why do people like this have kids. Accessory kids brought up by nannies.

[Anonymous]

Definitely cut ties. Your nanny is no longer worth it. She may be a nice person, but she has already told you she is not willing to meet her job responsibilities. That's fine, but does not in any way obligate you to stay in touch with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here --- She wants to reduce her responsibilities in a number of ways from what she has now (more vacation, fewer hours, 2 meals instead of 3/day for kids) which I think is related to her much older husband retiring this spring. We cannot accomodate these requests, especially because we are expecting our 3rd child in a month.

A third kid. No wonder she wants out. Do not insult her by asking if she wants to babysit. If she did, she would have said something. Just cut the ties and both of you get on with your lives.

Speak for yourself only on that as most nannies DO want to stay in touch even when we leave. And find a new job since you seem to hate yours.