Need quick advice!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know everyone has great intentions here, and yes the safety of the child should be paramount, but in reality this is the grandma. Tell DB what happened, but beyond that, I wouldn't say anything-especially do not say she isn't allowed over anymore. This will cause some major conflict within the family and in the end, you are only the nanny, who do you think will be going? Just keep your eye on her and try to get along, it will be awkward and make your job a bit harder, but sometimes those are the breaks.

She doesn't just belong to this family, she works for a share. The other child's safety needs to be considered here as well, and if OP doesn't feel she can ensure that - the safety of a child who is unrelated to this woman - then she has every right to set limits on visits during working hours. What would happen if she said nothing and the OTHER child choked on one of grandma's toys one day? Not good for anyone.