Having nanny issues and adding 2nd child RSS feed

Anonymous
OP, it is obvious that you want to get rid of this nanny. I do noy believe for one second that being told places and things to do, she would just sit ay home.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Was this an issue before you were home?

Could she be giving him more chances because your there and there's a new baby etc.?

Also he is probably being worse with both of you there then he is for either one of you individually.


OP here. I agree he probably acts out a little bit more when I am there, but I know from our nanny it happens when we also aren't there. I do realize we have had a major upheaval with the newborn, but hat is part of the reason we have suggested varied outings, because my son actually loves that kind of variation and gets bored with the same thing every day. I think him being at home watching me take care of the baby all day is prob making the issue worse, and I have told her so. She agrees with me every time and says she will take him those places but then never does it. Same with the time outs. I can call her out on it but just don't want to hurt her feelings since she is great in many other ways.


You need to sit her down and talk to her as her employer. Be kind, but stop worrying that correcting her job performance is going to hurt her feelings. Does your boss fuss and fret before s/he tells you where you need to improve? No. They just get on with it. You're her employer so you need to tell her explicitly what you expect and how you expect her to do it.
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