Newly formed slight resentment towards MB

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What matters here is how MB treats YOU. You can't control how other people treat one another (except for your children now). You will find that, no matter your best efforts, some people do not want to socialize with others. As long as they are good to you, respond in kind. Your resentment towards MB is inappropriate.

I don't act on the resentment in anyway. I love MB, the kids, the whole family! I just find this to be irritating. I would never let it affect my
Relationship with her, but it's frustrated me more especially in the last few weeks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My concern is actually for your charge. Obviously when you leave, this relationship is going to end suddenly and abruptly. I know little kids move on all the time, but with the added change of you leaving I think it could be a lot for the child to handle.

Is this something you can broach with MB?

That's a good valid point. Will dc get over it? Yes of course, but it's going to be an abrupt hault in more than one relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My concern is actually for your charge. Obviously when you leave, this relationship is going to end suddenly and abruptly. I know little kids move on all the time, but with the added change of you leaving I think it could be a lot for the child to handle.

Is this something you can broach with MB?

OP should not broach this with her MB. This is the mother's call and it is clear what her preference is. DC will get over the absence of her playmate quickly at that young age.

[Anonymous]

Not liking one person/family does not make MB a snob. She would have to dislike entire groups of people for shallow / materialistic / elitist reasons. She doesn't have to hang out with people she doesn't like. This should not jeopardize the relationship with Nanny, who MB seems to respect.

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything. You've got one month left and a 4 year work history with them. If you ruffle feathers now you'll just be screwing yourself

[Anonymous]

This is definitely not your business, OP. I know you can't help how you feel, but it's really not your call and it would be very inappropriate of you to talk to your MB about this.

You're leaving soon anyway, so your charge will just make a new friend.

[Anonymous]

I was in a similar situation but with another nanny. We met one summer and were inseparable after that. The family I nannied for had a 6 and 3 year old, same as the other family with a nanny. The 6 year old would always want to play with them on the weekend and mention how the other little girl was her "best friend". The parents met randomly at a pizza

[Anonymous]

Place but never got in touch after that. I left that family to go back to school but every time I visit/babysit she asks if we can go see them. Makes me sad . But if I didn't h it off with one of Mb'a friends with kids I wouldn't want to be for we to hang around and chat whil kids played.

[Anonymous]

*want to meet up and hang out

-sorry for the errors! Phone...