Has he texted back yet? If not, you did nothing wrong and the guy is just a jerk. Move on, and maybe try avoiding the same mistake next time

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Anonymous wrote:You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

Having sex with a new partner for the first time and NOT using protection is pretty reckless and stupid. Pray to god you didn't get pregnant and pray to god you don't develop an STD down the road. Then you're REALLY going to be wondering why dudes are getting back to you.

But what a thrill I get having unknown men do things to me that are out of my comfort zone. Things I’d never would have let my STBXH do to me in 15+ yrs of marriage. It’s a rush!

Ignoring the possibility this is a troll, As a guy, I never judged a woman for sleeping with me early. My judgement was on other behaviors, like she insulted me over dinner, or we went to a bar where her friends were, and I knew no one, and she left me to hang with her friends. (yes, I slept with her that night, but don't judge).

Now, I have not dated since cell phones have been ubiquitous. But, my guess is you acted like a jerk before sex, and the sex had nothing to do with him not calling.

It kind of reminds me of a story this one woman I went out with for a bit told me. She said that if the first date is going bad, that was the only time she would sleep with the guy on the first date...figuring she would get something out of it. (semen is something, I guess). That woman was the best sex I had. But, she was too wild (in other ways) for me.

The point is, his not calling you is probably unrelated to the sex or quality of sex, but rather, other things.

Anonymous wrote:Did you sleep with this guy by any chance?
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/709462.page

Hey super sleuth, you may be on to something here! Written one day apart around the same time too... OP is this you? Or are you changing details on us?
That would explain why the OP of the other thread knew about the other girl letting him ejacukate multiple times. And the underlying envy that seems to permeate that thread..

Anonymous wrote:This is small, and just a personal pet peeve with texting that I have. But hi isn’t really a conversation starter. it’s a slow molasses start that kinda annoys me. Asking an open ended question is always helpful. something like “it was nice to see you the other night! How is your day going?” Or follow up to a part of the convo you had last. “So did you end up finding a birthday gift for Larlo in time, or are you still looking?” It’s a bit more engaging than just a hello, and in your case, it also cloaks any insecurity you may be grappling with.

He’s still an asshole for not responding.

I agree. Texting just "hi" is weird.