Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He should have asked for it back. I would have made him. Do married men always give their affair partners expensive things to remember them by?
I was very generous with my AP. She was trying to compete with my wife and it was getting worse and worse. At that point I ended it and never had an AP again. There is something really strange about women trying to compete with other women they don't even know.
100% really weird psychology
Yeah, that PP thinks an AP feeling competitive with a wife is strange because they "don't even know" each other? What a bizarre thing to say.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He should have asked for it back. I would have made him. Do married men always give their affair partners expensive things to remember them by?
I was very generous with my AP. She was trying to compete with my wife and it was getting worse and worse. At that point I ended it and never had an AP again. There is something really strange about women trying to compete with other women they don't even know.
100% really weird psychology
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, my guess is she wears more than the necklace he gave her.
She probably wears that expensive, sexy lingerie he gave her, too. While she's with her new man, no less.
Life goes on. Including hers. Forget about this nonsense, drop it behind you like a leaded bag, and move forward.
Yeah. Gold-diggers can’t afford that stuff on their own. They prostitute themselves for jewelry and nice dinners.
This is such a paranoid, jealous and absurd stance.
No one is dealing with ridiculous married men for "nice dinners" and a freaking necklace. Not worth it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He should have asked for it back. I would have made him. Do married men always give their affair partners expensive things to remember them by?
I was very generous with my AP. She was trying to compete with my wife and it was getting worse and worse. At that point I ended it and never had an AP again. There is something really strange about women trying to compete with other women they don't even know.
100% really weird psychology
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eating her out coming home and kissing the kids without gargling.
He probably ate her a**s too, F**D her raw, came in her and all that good stuff. I don't even know how OP can get aroused again for her hubsand. People do some really freaky stuff with their APs.
To be fair…husband did all of that and more with me, the wife.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eating her out coming home and kissing the kids without gargling.
He probably ate her a**s too, F**D her raw, came in her and all that good stuff. I don't even know how OP can get aroused again for her hubsand. People do some really freaky stuff with their APs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He should have asked for it back. I would have made him. Do married men always give their affair partners expensive things to remember them by?
I was very generous with my AP. She was trying to compete with my wife and it was getting worse and worse. At that point I ended it and never had an AP again. There is something really strange about women trying to compete with other women they don't even know.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I wear a bracelet an ex from years ago gave me. My husband teases me about it but the bracelet is so pretty! I didn’t wear it for 5
two decades and at this point realized that just silly. It’s just gold not my heart.
I do too. I have a Tiffany heart toggle one. They have kind of come back in, and I think they cost like $700 now, so I have been wearing it.
But here's the thing -- that was a boyfriend I had in law school, 20 years ago, and it didn't work out, but things ended amicably enough. If I had a married bf and the relationship ended horribly over him not leaving his wife? I absolutely would not be wearing a piece of jewelry from him. Bad memories, bad energy, and it was a bad situation all around. That is not even jewelry that should have been given. My Tiffany bracelet is neutral to positive, but no strong feelings attached at all. I am suspicious of this AP OP references wearing that jewelry. Totally different situation. I think OP should be suspicious. Maybe she just likes the necklace; maybe it isn't over.
I think maybe it isn’t over - but I also think that I wouldn’t assume she wanted him to leave his wife for her. Sometimes APs are married and just want something on the side. Sometimes APs care about a person but don’t necessarily want the baggage of a full marriage — you know, because they know the guy’s bad habits, like that he cheats. They are happy for the attention, the dates, the gifts and the sex - and then send him home for someone else to deal with him.
Yeah, these APs exist. For sure. But they don't tend to be going around wearing sentimental jewelrey gifts over a year later.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eating her out coming home and kissing the kids without gargling.
He probably ate her a**s too, F**D her raw, came in her and all that good stuff. I don't even know how OP can get aroused again for her hubsand. People do some really freaky stuff with their APs.
+1
A man I dated said he had cheated with someone's wife on his own wife. It was raw anal and anything sex. He really wanted to marry me but he has cheated on a wife with someone's wife. Who can trust that. However I know most women don't care or care to ask.
I think men have more hang up over their wife being f**d by another guy than vice versa. And I don't know why. Women who forgive their AP the sordid details of any nasty freaky sex their husbands may have had doesn't seem to be on the high list of concerns for them. that part I also don't understand. These women are more worried whether he would be committed 100% again to them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eating her out coming home and kissing the kids without gargling.
He probably ate her a**s too, F**D her raw, came in her and all that good stuff. I don't even know how OP can get aroused again for her hubsand. People do some really freaky stuff with their APs.
+1
A man I dated said he had cheated with someone's wife on his own wife. It was raw anal and anything sex. He really wanted to marry me but he has cheated on a wife with someone's wife. Who can trust that. However I know most women don't care or care to ask.
+1. AP is a devil. She wasn’t the one that broke it off. She’s a psychopath. Shameful.Anonymous wrote:Most APs turn outright bitter and nasty when the guy doesn’t leave the wife or starts paying them less attention. They will do and say things to try and hurt the wife to get back at the husband. Story as old as time. I could totally see her wearing it out of spite and to fk with the married couple.