Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 14:22     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
I mean nature is crazy! Sometime your child will look just like Dad and pick up all his traits.

You have to love them ALL
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 14:21     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Mine started six years ago and was never “resolved” - he got the kids. Finally moving back to the United States and I’m relocating to be close to them/ share custody. I can’t imagine what it would be like to have a former spouse who didn’t even want to share custody, and my former spouse was no angel.


Good luck. Start from scratch. Don’t bring your old baggage into this. Your kids will love you no matter what! Just make it easy for them to love you


The only way I could do this for my kids was to forgive and learn to brotherly-love my former spouse. It’s hard (took years) but I did it.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 14:20     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Anonymous wrote:Mine started six years ago and was never “resolved” - he got the kids. Finally moving back to the United States and I’m relocating to be close to them/ share custody. I can’t imagine what it would be like to have a former spouse who didn’t even want to share custody, and my former spouse was no angel.


Good luck. Start from scratch. Don’t bring your old baggage into this. Your kids will love you no matter what! Just make it easy for them to love you
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 14:04     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Mine started six years ago and was never “resolved” - he got the kids. Finally moving back to the United States and I’m relocating to be close to them/ share custody. I can’t imagine what it would be like to have a former spouse who didn’t even want to share custody, and my former spouse was no angel.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 13:57     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
This is good analysis and thoughts
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/454008.page#6568116
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2025 12:55     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Anonymous wrote:You don't care enough about saving your kids from an emotionally abusive parent to pay for a lawyer?


Is this the same person who is going for a custody hearing this month? The lady who was evicted?
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2025 07:31     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Here is another one of where parent says
“Kids and I are living apart now“

“apart” used like this usually means the children relocated unilaterally “away” from
the other parent.

That is how the child/children is/are described.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2025 17:59     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
Anonymous wrote:You don't care enough about saving your kids from an emotionally abusive parent to pay for a lawyer?


She said he was emotionally abusive to her, not the child.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2025 17:55     Subject: High-conflict custody battle: how long?
You don't care enough about saving your kids from an emotionally abusive parent to pay for a lawyer?