Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:43
Subject: 32 and Still Single
I'm your age and very happily married. You just don't seem very nice and I don't really believe that people's online identities vary greatly from their ones IRL. I also have a medical degree (not MD) and was easily able to date and marry during the program. Do you have a friend who can be brutally honest if your personality may be turning people away?
Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:37
Subject: 32 and Still Single
OP why not see if the FWB could turn into a relationship and eventually marriage? You know you're sexually compatible, that's half the battle right there.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:29
Subject: Re:32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:I was single at 31, right before 32 met a wonderful man and we married right before I was 33. So there is hope!
I can't find the right man for you, but don't waste time on men that aren't committed. You'll see signs within a month or two that someone isn't ready or you aren't right together.
Where did you meet your guy?
What signs did you see while dating that indicated not committed?
Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:28
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok but usually when people say they have an MD they mean they are a physician.
Usually but these days everybody wants a trophy.
NP it’s not about a trophy. Eanrning a medical degree is an acolmoilsihemnt. Why not show that you do even if you’re not a doctor? That’s like saying pharmacists can’t say they’re doctors because they are not physicians. They earned the degree and the title. A medical degree does not only mean a physician. You thinking she was a physician is your ignorance and lack of understanding about medical fields, not hers.
I mean when posting on here to let people know quickly what kind of "type" they are so posters can get a general sense of what you are talking about and asking so they can weigh in. If you say you have an MD, that means you are a physician.
If you are a pharmacist, people typically just say that.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:26
Subject: Re:32 and Still Single
OP you seem a little racist, not very nice, and pretty transactional about finding a partner.
Maybe you need to let loose a little, get your groove back. Find a way to be more or less happy now, then just date a lot.
Maybe you need to let loose a little, get your groove back. Find a way to be more or less happy now, then just date a lot.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 08:18
Subject: Re:32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. I want to throw out there that I am in no way saying I am more dateable or better because I have a degree in your medical field. I know that my career will be brought up at some point, and that is why I offered up the information. My biggest issue is I am very picky and want to marry a certain type of man. Preferably 30’s, white ( my preference), never married, no kids, educated, makes 80k+ a year, conservative, non religious, wants kids, etc.
Are you white also OP? No offense, but why are you so picky? You have pcos and fertility issues in the family, so that makes you non-ideal for mid 30’s guys who want kids. Maybe you should broaden your expectations a bit.
Op here. I am white. I do have my pcos under control. My endocrinologist thinks my chances for having kids are very good.
The why did you say you'd be unlikely to have children of your own earlier in the thread? Are you just looking for things to whine about? Your attitude is annoying and offputting, that likely had way more to do with your inability to find and keep the sort of man you want than your looks.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 02:13
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
The dig about calling her a 4 is what is juvenile and shameful.
Op here. I could care less what some bitter woman has to say on here. Her husband likely cheats on her because she lost her looks. That’s the only reason I can think of for someone to bash another persons looks. I think I’m a 7 but I’ve been told I’m hot. I was even asked to model when I was in my early 20’s. I’m the typical blonde haired, blue eyed, fair skin woman. I’m single because of my lack of trying, not because I can’t find a date.
There are many women and men that are average or less than average that find suitors. A while a back a said men have their pick because the women in the DC area are less than average looking. PP must be projecting her own looks onto others. Rating someone is what juvenile boys do.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 02:11
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
The dig about calling her a 4 is what is juvenile and shameful.
Op here. I could care less what some bitter woman has to say on here. Her husband likely cheats on her because she lost her looks. That’s the only reason I can think of for someone to bash another persons looks. I think I’m a 7 but I’ve been told I’m hot. I was even asked to model when I was in my early 20’s. I’m the typical blonde haired, blue eyed, fair skin woman. I’m single because of my lack of trying, not because I can’t find a date.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 02:08
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
Check with Jeff that I’m not the other poster. We don’t have similar stories. I’m sure I’m not the only 30 something single person posting on here. I’m sure I’m not the only woman looking for a white educated man either. I have no trouble finding men so I must not be that unfortunate looking. I get asked out at least once a week at work. I’m sorry you feel the need to put others down. Grow up!
I agree there are a lot of 30 somethings in the DMV area. However both threadstarters emphasized being 32 specifically, making 200K (not a common salary for single woman, despite what reddit believes. Also both posters emphasize their fires for a a white man (specifically) who makes at least 80K and has conservative values. You both also emphasized the desire for children being a significant driver and exhibit the same unwillingness to acknowledge that you yourself may be playing a part.
So I really think you’re behind the two threads.
Also, last thing I promise. Please don’t rape or pressure the person sitting behind you, or next to you for that matter.
Many women are looking for the same thing. I’m 31, not 32.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 01:54
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
The dig about calling her a 4 is what is juvenile and shameful.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 01:39
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
Check with Jeff that I’m not the other poster. We don’t have similar stories. I’m sure I’m not the only 30 something single person posting on here. I’m sure I’m not the only woman looking for a white educated man either. I have no trouble finding men so I must not be that unfortunate looking. I get asked out at least once a week at work. I’m sorry you feel the need to put others down. Grow up!
I agree there are a lot of 30 somethings in the DMV area. However both threadstarters emphasized being 32 specifically, making 200K (not a common salary for single woman, despite what reddit believes. Also both posters emphasize their fires for a a white man (specifically) who makes at least 80K and has conservative values. You both also emphasized the desire for children being a significant driver and exhibit the same unwillingness to acknowledge that you yourself may be playing a part.
So I really think you’re behind the two threads.
Also, last thing I promise. Please don’t rape or pressure the person sitting behind you, or next to you for that matter.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 00:37
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
She posts the same thing every few months. There's no way she's a 7. She's probably a 4 or something.
That’s unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself. (NP here.)
No, it's great context. I'm glad PP did it, sometimes you have to certain posters will keep
you spinning around in circles.
Check with Jeff that I’m not the other poster. We don’t have similar stories. I’m sure I’m not the only 30 something single person posting on here. I’m sure I’m not the only woman looking for a white educated man either. I have no trouble finding men so I must not be that unfortunate looking. I get asked out at least once a week at work. I’m sorry you feel the need to put others down. Grow up!
Anonymous
01/19/2018 00:23
Subject: Re:32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. I want to throw out there that I am in no way saying I am more dateable or better because I have a degree in your medical field. I know that my career will be brought up at some point, and that is why I offered up the information. My biggest issue is I am very picky and want to marry a certain type of man. Preferably 30’s, white ( my preference), never married, no kids, educated, makes 80k+ a year, conservative, non religious, wants kids, etc.
Are you white also OP? No offense, but why are you so picky? You have pcos and fertility issues in the family, so that makes you non-ideal for mid 30’s guys who want kids. Maybe you should broaden your expectations a bit.
Op here. I am white. I do have my pcos under control. My endocrinologist thinks my chances for having kids are very good.
Anonymous
01/19/2018 00:18
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you also the author of this thread:
Settling at 32- http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/673464.page
The other OP had a similar salary and was looking for a guy with the same set of criteria.
Nope, not me.
Anonymous
01/18/2018 23:44
Subject: 32 and Still Single
Anonymous wrote:
You'll never be afraid to divorce due to lack of job/money.
Spare a thought for those of us in that predicament...
This is so sad. Since you have financial security now, can you invest some time/money in yourself to make you more independent? Sounds like you feel trapped which can’t be a comfortable feeling.