Anonymous
Post 08/06/2020 09:53     Subject: Re:Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t want to offer you false hope, but I will say pretty much every single break up I ever went through went a couple rounds before it was really over.

It’s not unusual for people to have a change of heart.

She might be back if you give her some space.


My experience has been that reuniting after a breakup doesn't work. The weight of the past that I didn't like, or he didn't, always returned to end the relationship, and it just made the final breakup more painful.


I’m the PP. I mean yeah most of the time I think that’s true. Sometimes it ends up working out though. DH and I broke up a couple times before we got married, but now we are OK. Every once in awhile things work out.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2020 08:50     Subject: Heartbroken
You’ll be fine. It’s like getting punched in the nose. It stings for a little bit and will go away.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2020 07:24     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?


https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/901329.page There you go my work here is done.


ugh yeah no that woman sounds like a mess

she clearly wants more than just a hookup

op, take some time to heal. don't go out and use women to get over this woman.


How about facing issues and working on recovering from a breakup from within rather than looking for an outside solution. No wonder there are so many unbalanced people out there.


It's not using if both want it, sometimes the best way to get over someone is to get under or over someone else, whatever your preference is.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2020 02:22     Subject: Re:Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:I don’t want to offer you false hope, but I will say pretty much every single break up I ever went through went a couple rounds before it was really over.

It’s not unusual for people to have a change of heart.

She might be back if you give her some space.


My experience has been that reuniting after a breakup doesn't work. The weight of the past that I didn't like, or he didn't, always returned to end the relationship, and it just made the final breakup more painful.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 23:31     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?


https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/901329.page There you go my work here is done.


ugh yeah no that woman sounds like a mess

she clearly wants more than just a hookup

op, take some time to heal. don't go out and use women to get over this woman.



It's not using if both want it, sometimes the best way to get over someone is to get under or over someone else, whatever your preference is.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 23:28     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Hmmm...it's tempting....how do I contact you?


https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/901329.page There you go my work here is done.


ugh yeah no that woman sounds like a mess

she clearly wants more than just a hookup

op, take some time to heal. don't go out and use women to get over this woman.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 23:22     Subject: Re:Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t want to offer you false hope, but I will say pretty much every single break up I ever went through went a couple rounds before it was really over.

It’s not unusual for people to have a change of heart.

She might be back if you give her some space.


Same here, don’t want to offer false hope, but agree about the space thing. I was going to give my ex 30 days before so contacted her. She ended up trashing out after 3 weeks. We are back together now.


Exactly in the space issue. And don’t drop any more hints. At least a half-dozen of us probably know one or both of you.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 22:44     Subject: Heartbroken
Why is being from different worlds a problem unless one of you is from a married world and the other isn't?
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 22:34     Subject: Re:Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:I don’t want to offer you false hope, but I will say pretty much every single break up I ever went through went a couple rounds before it was really over.

It’s not unusual for people to have a change of heart.

She might be back if you give her some space.


Same here, don’t want to offer false hope, but agree about the space thing. I was going to give my ex 30 days before so contacted her. She ended up trashing out after 3 weeks. We are back together now.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 22:21     Subject: Re:Heartbroken
I don’t want to offer you false hope, but I will say pretty much every single break up I ever went through went a couple rounds before it was really over.

It’s not unusual for people to have a change of heart.

She might be back if you give her some space.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 21:44     Subject: Heartbroken
Go ahead..tell us the story. You know we’ve heard just about everything under the sun here on DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 21:42     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Yikes! no offense but, he is too old



But if a 51 year old woman made a post about a bad break up and someone suggested she get with a 32-year-old man just for fun. you'd be all for it. It's a fling not a marriage.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 21:41     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Yikes! no offense but, he is too old



For you/ I'm not 32 , but I'm okay dating a guy 10 to 20 years older now that I'm in my 30s.
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 21:18     Subject: Heartbroken
Anonymous wrote:On the contrary if you allow me to play matchmatcker there's a 32 year old who isn't looking for anything serious. Perhaps have some fun on the side while learning your 3 languages.


Yikes! no offense but, he is too old
Anonymous
Post 08/05/2020 21:14     Subject: Heartbroken
You sound like a really nice guy, OP.

Is there a therapist you could maybe reach out to?