Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:54     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
OP for all of our sakes, please stop posting.

in both posts, everybody's collaborative opinion has been that you need to grow up and your boyfriend needs to find himself a better girlfriend
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:36     Subject: Re:Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:For your own sake, you need to cool the relationship to casual dating. You aren't mature enough to handle a grown up relationship if this is how you act.


I agree with this. OP, you are not mature and need to do some hardcore growing up. Here's a hint: being grownup doesn't mean getting into a serious romantic relationship.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:35     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP again - or are you the poster who didn't change the toilet paper in your BF's house? Regardless, it sounds like he's frustrated by these fights.


I think it is. hahaha she considered replacing an TP roll to be housekeeping and didnt want to overstep her bounds. What the hell is wrong with the bf for staying with this girl


Because I am awesome!
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:29     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:PP again - or are you the poster who didn't change the toilet paper in your BF's house? Regardless, it sounds like he's frustrated by these fights.


I think it is. hahaha she considered replacing an TP roll to be housekeeping and didnt want to overstep her bounds. What the hell is wrong with the bf for staying with this girl
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:22     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
PP again - or are you the poster who didn't change the toilet paper in your BF's house? Regardless, it sounds like he's frustrated by these fights.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:19     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!


Link?


http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/473028.page#6991975

Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:19     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!


Link?


PP here, found it. Oh, OP. You've got some growing up to do. Were you the OP of the thread asking how to be less critical of her BF, or something of that nature? If so, at least you're open to constructive criticism.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:13     Subject: Re:Do you ever have an off night?
For your own sake, you need to cool the relationship to casual dating. You aren't mature enough to handle a grown up relationship if this is how you act.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 14:07     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!


Link?
dancingsunflowers06
Post 06/02/2015 13:45     Subject: Re:Do you ever have an off night?
Have you thought about talking to him about it once everyone cools down? I always recommend talking about what happened after the fact and how it doesn't have to happen that way again. If he knows your expectations, then hopefully he can understand that. Vice versa. Sometimes people just have bad days though and they need someone there to lift them up when they are down. If my husband came in the house not acting like himself, I would immediately know something was on his mind. I'd ask if he wanted to talk about it or wait. Then I'd give him his space. It hasn't ever been about me but if you take it there, it will cause a lot of heat. Men are simple creatures. Praying for your relationship!

mommato2lilmonkeys
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 13:03     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!


+1,000,000

You are needy as hell. He had a tough, emotional weekend, you picked a fight when me got home, and now you are mad because he didn't kiss your ass the next day? You sound like a prize.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 12:13     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


Good god. Hope you're ready to be single again. Your boyfriend has had one too many red flags with you. Agree with counseling to determine why you act like this
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 11:50     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:So last night, I feel bad about what happened.

My bf was away on a trip this weekend with his parents to visit his ailing grandmother.While there, he also had the chance to catch up with his childhood friends and had an emotional but fun weekend. He got back late Sunday night and we got in a tiff about how I felt left out of his weekend activities. After going back and forth, at 1 am we made up and said goodnight on the phone.

Yesterday I went over to his place after the gym. I hadn't seen him in 2 days and I was excited to hug him and kiss him! He walks in in a foul mood and doesn't even acknowledge me beyond a short, "hey" and goes to the kitchen to check where there's a bad smell coming from. Then he goes into his room and changes out of his suit and comes out. We then go out to get groceries for dinner. I'm then pouty all night because he didn't greet me warmly. After dinner he comments about my being pouty and I tell him why. He then says I'm being nitpicking and he is exhausted.

We had such an off night because I was pouty at not being acknowledged warmly and he is upset because he just got home from a long trip and he wanted to relax.

Not at all the romantic reunion I was expecting.

Does this ever happen to you?


You are absolutely insufferable. Grow up.
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 11:37     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.


OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!
Anonymous
Post 06/02/2015 11:19     Subject: Do you ever have an off night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.


Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.


Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?


Yes I am.