I think that it's possible that the Op's wife thought that he was over reacting and didn't realize that his air was cut off. If he was talking, making noises, screaming throughout this incident...she may not have realized the extent of the problem.

OP I can see how this incident scared you tremendously because you were choking. I think your wife should have been a little more compassionate about the fact that you had a big scare, but I don't think her response was that bad. I mean you possibly could have been eating a little too fast. I think it hurt your feelings because of many other things going on in your marriage.

Women don't like weak men.
I suggest you man-up and get off this board.

Anonymous wrote:Man, there are so many heartless bitches on DCUM. WTF is wrong with you women. OP seriously had a potential life threatening problem, and the best his DW could muster was eat slower next time. No, boy am I glad that is over. I am sorry. And what's with the daughter afraid to call 911 b/c she doesn't need the "drama?"

Oh, yeah, I forgot this is DCUM. Home of she-woman man haters anonymous!

Nope, if a wife came on her complaining about the same scenario, I'd tell her to man-up (too bad the OP gives a bad rap to man-up). I call a whiny bitch one if it a man or a woman.

Came home the other evening, and there's a bloody paper towel on the kitchen counter. DH bursts into kitchen, clutching hand, screams "I cut myself." Something broke while he was getting it out of the dishwasher. He's got blood on his pants too.

So I did all the compassionate stuff, but it was just - a cut. Nothing serious.

Yes, I am a heartless bitch.

Anonymous wrote:Is this you?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/366121.page

Oh yeah, that's definitely him. The combination of self-pity and vitriol is unmistakable.

Man, there are so many heartless bitches on DCUM. WTF is wrong with you women. OP seriously had a potential life threatening problem, and the best his DW could muster was eat slower next time. No, boy am I glad that is over. I am sorry. And what's with the daughter afraid to call 911 b/c she doesn't need the "drama?"

Oh, yeah, I forgot this is DCUM. Home of she-woman man haters anonymous!

Anonymous wrote:Is this you?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/366121.page

No, sorry!

It is better live on the corner of a rooftop than in a house with a nagging wife!

It's better to live happily in a trailer park than in misery in a mansion...

You have the opportunity to free yourself and fly up, up, up and AWAY from it all. Rethink this whole custody thing (you know that you don't really want to deal with that) and you are a free man, albeit a bit poorer.

Just think, you would be free to choke in your very own place and barf in your very own sink and you wouldn't have to listen to anyone say "Ewwwww, gross." You deserve that Op. You truly do.

I strongly suspect your daughter is right. I'm not there, so I can't tell if your wife is a bitch, you're a drama queen, or whether your version of the story is accurate. However, your daughter will have been living with the crap relationship for years and shouldn't be dealing with all the hostility. The both of you - grow up,or split up.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

No, I did not mention anything about it the rest of the night. She is just a heartless shrew. I am finally going to file for divorce.

You've been saying that a while, OP, in multiple posts.
Do it...it's definitely time.

You are drama OP. I recognize your posts from a mile away. Sounds like even your DD is getting sick of your shit. File for divorce and put everyone out of their misery already!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

No, I did not mention anything about it the rest of the night. She is just a heartless shrew. I am finally going to file for divorce.

You've been saying that a while, OP, in multiple posts.
Do it...it's definitely time.

Is this you?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/366121.page

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

No, I did not mention anything about it the rest of the night. She is just a heartless shrew. I am finally going to file for divorce.