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Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

The ex-wife seems to have quite an appetite for things others might consider humiliating and degrading. But then again I'm so old fashioned I thought a facial was something you get at a spa.

Anonymous wrote:I know. I troll here with the best of them. Some of my posts stay, others don't. Makes no sense.

Anonymous wrote:Why do some things get removed and others dont? This whole thread is an embarrassment.

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Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

This x1000. Unfortunately for him, it's just making him look bad and by dragging anyone and everyone into it just makes it worse. What about his poor kids. No wonder she went somewhere else, he seems insufferable and if I was her I would be laughing and happy as a clam that the a-hole was making such a spectacle. This is DC, scandal is not anyone's friend. Having said this, I am o fan of adultery but I'm not going judge. I'd much more sympathetic if he had come up with a more creative way at getting his revenge.

She lost custody to him. The children live with him in Florida per judge's orders. If she's so innocent, why was that decision made? Know how hard it is for a young-ish mother to lose custody of her young daughters to a guy in his 60s?

Have the DC Mom’s forgotten their Fifty Shades of Grey? The woman in the Sidwell parent/teacher scandal was plainly in a submissive relationship with the Man (the Sidwell psychologist). Read the lawsuit documents and you’ll see that the woman was the recipient of many “favors” typical of a BDSM relationship – I won’t go into detail on this family oriented thread, but read that lawsuit again and tell me I’m wrong. People wonder how could He be so foolish as to use Sidwell’s e-mail system to send edgy e-mails including threats to tell the young child about mommy’s submission. In the context of BDSM, such correspondence is part of establishing and maintaining control and the risk associated with using the school’s e-mail system would (for some) enhance the stimulation. To be clear, I have no knowledge that either of the two consenting adults was involved in the “scene,” but I think that what we know makes a lot more sense if it is viewed with the BDSM lens. Give it a try.

If I’m right, then I wonder about past relationships. Both of them left relationships – were those relationships also Ds relationships? Does this explain why the counter suit accuses the former husband of trying to “control” his estranged wife? Nothing wrong with a Ds relationship among consenting adults and if it is done in private there need not be any impact on the kids (though kids could pick up on the power exchange if you aren’t careful). However, as open as I am about such things, I sure as hell wouldn’t want another Dom/me messing with my kids head. Just saying.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

This x1000. Unfortunately for him, it's just making him look bad and by dragging anyone and everyone into it just makes it worse. What about his poor kids. No wonder she went somewhere else, he seems insufferable and if I was her I would be laughing and happy as a clam that the a-hole was making such a spectacle. This is DC, scandal is not anyone's friend. Having said this, I am o fan of adultery but I'm not going judge. I'd much more sympathetic if he had come up with a more creative way at getting his revenge.

She lost custody to him. The children live with him in Florida per judge's orders. If she's so innocent, why was that decision made? Know how hard it is for a young-ish mother to lose custody of her young daughters to a guy in his 60s?

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Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

This x1000. Unfortunately for him, it's just making him look bad and by dragging anyone and everyone into it just makes it worse. What about his poor kids. No wonder she went somewhere else, he seems insufferable and if I was her I would be laughing and happy as a clam that the a-hole was making such a spectacle. This is DC, scandal is not anyone's friend. Having said this, I am o fan of adultery but I'm not going judge. I'd much more sympathetic if he had come up with a more creative way at getting his revenge.

Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

jsteele wrote:Does anyone know how Newmyer managed to get hold of Huntington's emails?

Anonymous wrote:has it occurred to any one that Terry Newmyer is doing this for the sport of it i.e. to humiliate people because he can?

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Anonymous wrote:Here is a little bit of "the rest of the story." The interesting stuff is at the beginning and then at page 12-end. http://dcslapplaw.com/files/2013/01/Huntington_opp_slapp_mol.pdf

Huntington, the psychologist, filed a counterclaim against Newmyer, saying Newmyer is defaming him. Newmyer tried to block Huntington's counterclaim, but lost in two different courts.

Some facts from Huntington's side that I have not seen in the news reports:

@ Newmyer and ex-wife were already legally separated and living as if each were single, well before any of this occurred. Newmyer himself had already had two relationships of his own.

@ Newmyer is loaded (17 million), and hired a PR firm to publicize his complaint and the details. (Sort of makes me wonder whether this recent media blitz, and even some posts here, might be the work of the PR firm.)

@ Huntington did lose his job due to pressure from Newmyer. But he did not lose his license. In fact, the licensing board found that Huntington was never actually treating the child and never had any sort of professional relationship. (This fact makes me wonder if the ex-wife was just telling Newmyer that the reason she was spending so much time with the psychologist was to treat the daughter, when in reality, she was simply dating the psychologist.)

@ If Huntington was not really treating the child at all (as the licensing board found), what's the legal claim against the school? Can't be held liable for any supposed lapse in treatment or violation of duty, if there was no real psych-patient relationship. I'm not sure why the school cannot get out of the case. Maybe the judge ruled that the licensing board's decision is not binding, so a jury could theoretically disagree with the licensing board.

@ IMHO, this all starts to sound more like a relationship between two consenting adults, and a vindictive ex-husband who is using his wealth to try to punish and control his ex-wife. It seems like Newmyer tied in the school on a weak link just to ensure his claims would get national media attention, so he could further embarrass his ex-wife and her new boyfriend.

@ Even if Newmyer was totally right in all his claims and everything he said was true (just hypothetically), what father would hire a PR firm to put all that salacious info out there about himself, his daughters, and their mother? What kind of father shoves his daughters into the national media spotlight like that? He does not seem to be acting in their best interests. It seems like he is using his daughters to get revenge on his ex-wife.

except for the fact that his personal emails sent from his work computer give a clear picture of a man who did not respect his students, or the confidentiality of his role. The sharing of private info about other parents ( the Woodwwards) with one of their fellow parents he was having sex with

jsteele wrote:

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@ Newmyer is loaded (17 million), and hired a PR firm to publicize his complaint and the details. (Sort of makes me wonder whether this recent media blitz, and even some posts here, might be the work of the PR firm.)

It is quite likely that someone from Newmyer's camp has been posting here. Look at this thread from 2010, before any of this was public:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/100508.page