Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 10:51     Subject: How to handle separation from a man I’m attached to?
Anonymous wrote:Fearful avoidant attachment

OP here. I’d also been analyzing my attachment style and had trouble understanding what it is: sometimes I wanted to run away because it was too good to be true, and at the same time I wanted to be with him all the time.

I told him that I don’t do well with uncertainty and it helps me to know when I’ll see him next time. He took that very seriously, and now being 4 months in the relationship, I feel much better and more confident that it’ll continue. We just took a 4 day trip together, planned an overnight trip for next weekend, he told me where he’ll take me for my birthday later this month, and we got tickets to Europe for 2 weeks in June-July and are actively planning that trip. It’s the best relationship that I’ve ever had in my life.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2026 00:39     Subject: How to handle separation from a man I’m attached to?
Fearful avoidant attachment
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2026 11:05     Subject: How to handle separation from a man I’m attached to?
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Anonymous wrote:Same Op: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1290168.page#30708469

Yes, that’s me, and my relationship with that man progressed in such a dramatic way. Because of that I was finally able to detach from him and become ready for a real relationship with someone. Too bad they locked that thread, the rest of the story that unfolded in October-November was quite epic.

Wait, so the guy in the quoted post and the guy in the OP are two DIFFERENT guys? And that situation ended in November and you started seeing OP guy in January?

This is beyond therapy. Get thee to a nunnery! Your poor, poor husband.

The guy that I wrote about last year made me feel alive again, and after I finally got a closure from him, I was able to detach and start looking for a real relationship and found it. Nobody will ever be able to guess as to what happened between us last fall. I can share later though.

My husband is fine. He loves me and encourages me to buy a nice house in my new city, using our joint savings.

This is so delulu. So many trolls writing erotic fiction on here, getting their jollies off in front of an unsuspecting public. It’s gross!

This is my real life, fortunately or unfortunately.