I believe this is the thread you ladies are talking about.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/526981.page

Make it difficult in what ways?

EmilyBeran wrote:Even I want to read this kind of thread please give the url of the site...

Presumably OP is referring to the divorce threads on this site.

Even I want to read this kind of thread please give the url of the site...

Didn't you just post a thread like this?

As I've been reading all the divorce threads I've noticed something interesting. Every divorced woman opines about how important fathers are and how their ex doesn't co-parent enough or isn't involved enough yet it appears they make if very difficult for the ex to be involved. There appears to be a real contradiction between words and behavior. There were other threads about how the wives are the ones mostly filing for divorce so from the start they appear to initiate the situation, in part, because they think the fathers aren't involved enough and then after its more difficult for the father to be involved innumerate the ways the father is even less involved.