Thanks for your reply!
I am the OP and also posted this thread about my second grader and her problems with her teacher, which led to my daughter peeing her pants, twice:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/132027.page#1139390
My concern is that, based on my daughter's classroom performance, which is reported as satisfactory, and the fact that to be honest, I don't think the teacher likes her, I fear the teacher is going to oppose sending my child to GT.
Since I posted the "conflict" thread, I have done several things to address the problems I told you all about.
First, I met with the teacher and had a heart to heart, which I thought went well.
However a week later, my daughter wet her pants again. This time I called and emailed the assistant principal and it was clear I was not happy. I got a call back that day from the teacher, who was defensive. I told the teacher, “This is not about you. This is about my child. I don’t care what you have to do; I want her sent to the bathroom more frequently”. That has been implemented and the pants wetting stopped.
I also took my child to the Inova Keller testing center. They have done a battery of tests over the last 6 weeks or so and we should have the results soon. Additionally I took my child to an occupational therapist to find out if she could tell me anything about my child’s handwriting problems. She is working on her final report.
I understand, after looking at the website, that the CAT is only one factor in determining GT. My concern is whether my child’s classroom problems will prevent her from going to GT – and, maybe I shouldn’t push it if she’s not capable of performing in a GT classroom either.
So, my reaching out to you all, to find out if you’ve had any experience with a GT program, how the whole process worked, any problems you encountered. The web site doesn’t tell me, for example, how they weight the scores, whether certain percentiles are a clear indication of GT, how they might accommodate ADHD. All things I realize you may not know either….. unless you’ve experienced the process perhaps?
Sorry for the long post and thanks for any feedback!