Anonymous
Post 01/07/2024 21:11     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?

Anonymous wrote:You brace yourself to have a SIL who is the first warm body he meets online.

This was my brother 15 years ago. He was a serial monogamist until an unfortunate phase of single life that coincided with all of his friends marrying, and it made him panic. Now he’s still sad because he got desperate and got engaged to the first woman he interacted with on match. He has kids with her and moved for her job and now he’s depressed because he married so he wouldn’t be alone, not because he likes her or because she’s nice.


Yep.

That said, we really don’t know what he’s bringing to the table to attract a nice young woman. I’m not even talking about finances. No one wants to date the depressed guy or the one having a pity-party.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2024 21:08     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?

sign him up for dating sites
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2024 18:22     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?

Have him take up an activity like ballroom dancing or indoor rock climbing.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2024 12:15     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?

Get him an escort for his birthday.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2024 12:04     Subject: Re:Sad brother, what to do?

What does he want? Have you asked him?

Focus on what he wants: finding dates? mental health? life changes? more social activities? And does he want these from you?

Hard to answer your questions without more info, OP. Also, can't help with a birthday gift unless you provide more info about his interests.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2024 00:07     Subject: Re:Sad brother, what to do?

Anonymous
Post 01/03/2024 23:46     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?

You brace yourself to have a SIL who is the first warm body he meets online.

This was my brother 15 years ago. He was a serial monogamist until an unfortunate phase of single life that coincided with all of his friends marrying, and it made him panic. Now he’s still sad because he got desperate and got engaged to the first woman he interacted with on match. He has kids with her and moved for her job and now he’s depressed because he married so he wouldn’t be alone, not because he likes her or because she’s nice.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2024 23:15     Subject: Sad brother, what to do?


My young brother early 30s is single. He had 1 gf before but she was a looney, taking his money and she never spend anything. She just likes to party.
My brother wants a good wife and settle down.
He says he's short, white blue eyes, good looking. I don't think he's short.

What should I do? What to gift him for his birthday?
He doesn't drink or smoke. Good guy, good job. But he seems sad, depressed. He can't find a gf