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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I personally think the main issue with Chelsea-Adam-Aubree is that Chelsea won't allow herself to just be civil with Adam for Aubrees sake because her dad wouldn't like it. No reason she can't put her own personal feelings aside, tell her dad to grow up, and let her daughter have a relationship with her dad. No reason they can't shoot the breeze for a moment then dissipate at sporting events or school plays, for the sake of Aubree. No reason they can't civilly meet in a parking lot and do drop off, "How are you, Adam? How is Paislee?" for the sake of Audrey. Nobody says she has to love him, but Aubree DOES. It shields a true level of maturity when you can put your feelings (your DADS feelings) aside and coparent. I have a feeling if Chelsea (AND her dad) calmed down and became civil, Adam would make an effort. [/quote] The only problem with this is that ADAM DOES NOT SHOW UP. Aubree has more of a relationship with Adam's parents than with Adam. [/quote] Chicken and egg. Maybe he would if they could make an effort to make him feel welcome.[/quote] Ok Dr Drew. Chelsea made herself look like an idiot for years bending over backward for Adam and now that she's stopped and he's still a shitty dad you think that's on HER? [/quote]No, I think it's on her dad. I think he influences her greatly. I think he wouldn't care less if Adam was gone tomorrow. That kind of opinion does nothing for Aubree, who ultimately suffers. I think Chelsea would be just fine acting civil if her dad was on board. She still carries a torch, if not only for Aubree. Look, I'm not claiming to be an expert, but my ex, the father of my kids, is sort of flighty. We did the tit for tat, back and forth bad attitude for years. It was awkward and uncomfortable, and ultimately, our kids suffered. One day I woke up and said enough was enough. I set up a meeting and told my ex the past was the past, clean slate, but we needed to get along for our kids. We can actually talk at events now, it's nice for our kids. And yes, my ex steps up a LOT now. He even comes in for a beer at holiday exchanges. It's so much easier on everyone involved.[/quote]
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