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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This was also posted, photos AP put on IG of her at gym with BB beginning in October 2022, when she extended and a few months before the murders. https://www.instagram.com/p/CyuRYr1IpZw/?img_index=2 You can copy/paste into Google translate or scroll back for translation.[/quote] Lifetime Fitness. Another expensive hobby for a guy making a mediocre salary for the area[/quote] Didn't appear to be using it much until his hottie princess came along...[/quote] The irony is that the AP referred to HIM as a "hottie" in several of her IG posts. I don't see it but "love is blind" as they say.[/quote] Blind and delusional! All she saw was $$$ and a ticket to middle class American wifehood. Green goggles. [/quote] How did he afford her and all his luxuries on his supposedly meager government salary? Can't find it on this thread. Was it money from his parents? Also it looks like their previous au pair also married an American to stay here?[/quote] Yes, she did. Maybe 2 previous au pairs of theirs married. Juliana decided not to look outside the home. She was their first au pair to extend, I believe and went public with the affair at that point. [/quote] Wow I see. On the date app I'm on there are loads of au pairs seeking an American boyfriend or husband. BB was definitely flexing and if they found jr on that fetish site wonder why cb would be open to meeting him if she didn't agree with whatever fetish bb had in mind.[/quote] Interesting. Someone said upthread that many are on the apps even before arrival. Maybe CB felt like it was something she needed to do to keep him. Maybe it was linked to his birthday, the day before the murders. He kept moving the goal posts in a very sick, manipulative way in their relationship, dehumanizing her. Whether she consciously was aware of this affair yet or not, on some level she had to pick up the "sister wives" vibe in her own home. She likely felt desperate. His appearance had changed, so often a sign of an affair in midlife. Maybe they had always been swingers but she doesn't really seem the type. She was clinging to an illusion, much like AP is now. She had been quite heavy when young and may have been insecure and having a cheating husband likely did not help her self esteem. She had moved far from family and lifelong friends. He had a lot of control over her emotionally is my guess. I doubt she agreed to him f&cking her child's caregiver in her own home, maybe marital bed. And flaunting her at a gym she also likely frequented. Still, I'm certain she would not have killed for him, that AP is ride or die and all about the $$$. Does she even realize they burned down the life she thought she was stepping into? Clock was ticking in the final year of the J-1, is she still so caught up in delusions? 3 months behind bars may be a needed reality check. [/quote]
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