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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I miss the connection, the intellectual match, witty games we'd play that others wouldn't get. Add to this the sexual match and teasing, it was all too good to be true. [b]In the end I think I was told what I wanted to hear.[/b][/quote]

I'm the PP who said no and it was about missing the feelings. What's bolded is exactly what happened with me. I made my AP into everything I wanted/needed at that time. The things he said, he did, I manipulated them into what I wanted. Therefore, of course we had an amazing connection...of course he was my soulmate...because he was a fantasy transferred onto a real person. My H couldn't compete with what I'd built up in my head.

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Nobody could.  Are you still married?  What I would love to know is where these people get the time and energy for this stuff and get away with it.[/quote]

Obviously they find the time by stealing it from their spouse and kids, yet another reason affairs and the people that get involved in them are so despicable[/quote]

Work travel. I'm out of town anyway. I can spend my evening watching bad movies alone in my hotel room, or I can spend them with an AP.  Doesn't take time away from DH or my job, either way. And no, I don't arrange trips for this purpose, just take advantage of opportunities as they arise. [/quote]

Do you even have an ounce of guilt? Sure doesn't sound like it. I hope you get caught. [/quote]

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