Anonymous wrote:My married best friend I've known since high school decided to rekindle a thing she had her first year in college. I didn't find out until after the fact.

Her husband was home with their 3 little kids, she said she was going shopping in the city next to where they lived for surprise birthday gifts. She really was meeting her boyfriend for lunch and dessert, if you know what I mean.

3 hours later she was found in her car with 5 bullets in her head, boyfriend with a self inflicted wound dead near the car.

Why marry if you want to cheat ?

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Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Wait, you hate him? Why?

Because on Thanksgiving all the APs are with their wife and the OW are allllll alllloooonnnnneeee.

It has been years, but I still love to see my wife suffer over her affair. I know that's really petty and sadistic to bring up how she got used, but whatever.

Anonymous wrote:My married best friend I've known since high school decided to rekindle a thing she had her first year in college. I didn't find out until after the fact.

Her husband was home with their 3 little kids, she said she was going shopping in the city next to where they lived for surprise birthday gifts. She really was meeting her boyfriend for lunch and dessert, if you know what I mean.

3 hours later she was found in her car with 5 bullets in her head, boyfriend with a self inflicted wound dead near the car.

Why marry if you want to cheat ?

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Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Wait, you hate him? Why?

Because on Thanksgiving all the APs are with their wife and the OW are allllll alllloooonnnnneeee.

It has been years, but I still love to see my wife suffer over her affair. I know that's really petty and sadistic to bring up how she got used, but whatever.

It's sad, I have multiple friends that did the same.

Anonymous wrote:My married best friend I've known since high school decided to rekindle a thing she had her first year in college. I didn't find out until after the fact.

Her husband was home with their 3 little kids, she said she was going shopping in the city next to where they lived for surprise birthday gifts. She really was meeting her boyfriend for lunch and dessert, if you know what I mean.

3 hours later she was found in her car with 5 bullets in her head, boyfriend with a self inflicted wound dead near the car.

Why marry if you want to cheat ?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Wait, you hate him? Why?

Because on Thanksgiving all the APs are with their wife and the OW are allllll alllloooonnnnneeee.

It has been years, but I still love to see my wife suffer over her affair. I know that's really petty and sadistic to bring up how she got used, but whatever.

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Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Wait, you hate him? Why?

Because on Thanksgiving all the APs are with their wife and the OW are allllll alllloooonnnnneeee.

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Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Wait, you hate him? Why?

Anonymous wrote:I hope he chokes on a Turkey Leg

Anonymous wrote:No, not at all. All I did was worry about those exams. I got a three on one of them and still think about it, but I don't miss it.

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Anonymous wrote:I miss the connection, the intellectual match, witty games we'd play that others wouldn't get. Add to this the sexual match and teasing, it was all too good to be true. In the end I think I was told what I wanted to hear.

I'm the PP who said no and it was about missing the feelings. What's bolded is exactly what happened with me. I made my AP into everything I wanted/needed at that time. The things he said, he did, I manipulated them into what I wanted. Therefore, of course we had an amazing connection...of course he was my soulmate...because he was a fantasy transferred onto a real person. My H couldn't compete with what I'd built up in my head.

Nobody could. Are you still married? What I would love to know is where these people get the time and energy for this stuff and get away with it.

Obviously they find the time by stealing it from their spouse and kids, yet another reason affairs and the people that get involved in them are so despicable

Work travel. I'm out of town anyway. I can spend my evening watching bad movies alone in my hotel room, or I can spend them with an AP. Doesn't take time away from DH or my job, either way. And no, I don't arrange trips for this purpose, just take advantage of opportunities as they arise.