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[quote=Anonymous]If my family hosted Thanksgiving, we'd also invite the lifelong family friends. My husband's aunt and uncle have friends like this. I'd feel like a jerk for messing up that situation., AND my husband, who has spent nearly every TG with them since he was a kid, would want them here. I could also see my FIL asking us if he can bring a friend of his who sometimes comes to family things. We'd say sure, why not? I can't see why we'd turn anyone away. Doesn't OP's son want the friends there? He's been having Thanksgiving dinner with them all these years, too. I'd love to hear 1 the daughter's side of this. The only reason we'd exclude anyone is if they're terribly offensive assholes. And maybe that s why DIL is excluding the family friends. I can totally see OP's side here. Op, talk to your son about the friends. Ask specifically if they can come. Offer to bring one side dish, NOT YOUR CHINA (that is wayyyyy too Controlling). Then sit back and let her host. [/quote]
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