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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH got suspicious when he noticed my best lingerie missing for a business trip. Two days later he saw an incriminating email. I was in a terrible place internally. [b]My life was so dark and my marriage was so lonely and lifeless[/b]. I have so much guilt and shame. My DH has stayed with me and kept our family together and I will always be grateful for that. We are in a better place now. Not great but better and working on it every day. I learned so much[/quote]

I think that people say this to make themselves feel less guilty about what they did. It's kinda like a coping mechanism. [/quote]

Or, it's true?

-- signed, Cheated-on spouse who understands that cheating sucks but sometimes marriages suck, too. [/quote]

I was the PP who wrote the original that was bolded.  Am not offering that as reason to feel less guilty. I feel horribly guilty. I can't even believe I did it. I will live with shame the rest of your life. But our marriage had completely broken down. We led separate lives. The house had an icy coldness to it. His porn habit early in our marriage deeply hurt me. I felt rejected and unloved by him and I looked up and hated my life. I picked a horrible way to cope but all of what Isaid was true
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