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Reply to "We are separating, telling kids on Saturday"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think there are good reasons not to tell, including keeping away from the drama, focusing on yourself the kids, coparenting. And the job issue. But I also think there is a reason to tell and that is that once the affair is no longer secret on anyone's part, and is out in the cold, cruel light of the day, and the consequences start to rack up, well often that is when the affair glow wears off. If OP has any interest in potentially salvaging her marriage, the affair needs to stop first, which it clearly hasn't. There is no guarantee that telling will stop it, but if the OW is lying to her husband and still seeing OP's spouse, they are still living in fantasy life. real life is much harder on affairs. If OP has no intention of EVER salvaging her marriage, then telling is probably not in her interest. OP, check out surviving infidelity. you might get some pointers there. In the meantime, I wish you the best possible in this terrible situation. [/quote]
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