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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I'm probably.not going to tell her husband.  Mostly because I'm selfish right now and worried that telling him would just end their marriage, making her available to my soon to be ex husband..  I'm not a bad person.  I'm not mean or vindictive.  I'm just scared, hurt, and so blindsided.  In a deep dark place I do want her to suffer as I have.

The rational side of me knows nothing good could come of it, and I'll regret it later.  I'll use Michelle Obama's tip... When they go low, we go high.  And I'm doing it for my kids.

Now, if he ever introduces her to my kids... Dear lord help me.

For what it's worth, I don't know that APs husband knows.  I just know they are in counseling.

Any tips for the constant cycling of tears, anger, and fear?  How long does this last?  I was thinking of telling him once he moves out that we need to only communicate about the kids and divorce details.  I don't say that to be mean, but to help myself move on. I think it is the best way to keep it amicable. [/quote]

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