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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a Catholic wedding. You can absolutely decide the bridesmaid role and ask whether you can do something else. "Thanks so much for including me. I think I'm just too far away/preoccupied with the kids/busy with work travel/[b]holding on to this baby weight[/b]" to really be the kind of bridesmaid you deserve. Do you think I could do a reading instead? Or bring up the gifts?" If you offer to take on another role, you're still supporting her and no one will notice that you aren't wearing a strapless blush dress.[/quote] If she tells SIL she's too fat to be in the wedding, wouldn't she also be too fat to bring up the gifts or do a reading? I've actually never heard of someone declining to be in a wedding because they are too fat.[/quote] Right?! [/quote]
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