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[quote=Anonymous]I want to add that I think the being cordial is really really important. It is hard to sustain anger all the time. And it is just better to assume that your partner really didn't hear you or understand what you meant, than to assume he/she was doing annoying habit #175 just to irritate you. Being nice helps. My marriage is actually a mess right now, but being cordial on the top layer makes it better for us and the children, and we can delve into our actual issues without unduly hurting each other and exacerbating the problems. It would be so easy to name call and nitpick and be angry. True story: Husband and I once had a fight in front of a friend. When I apologized later for fighting in front of him the friend admitted he hadn't even realized we were fighting because it was all quite civilized. [/quote]
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