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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is setting a condition on his remorse.  "I will act remorseful and recommit to this marriage only if you promise me in advance that you will completely forgive me and tell me now that what I plan to do in the future will be enough."  It is a promise you cannot give even if you wanted to do so and it means he will only put in the effort if he is certain of the outcome.  That is not humility, it is entitlement.  I did this bad thing but I am entitled to your forgiveness so why won't you give it to me?  ME ME ME  It is how I feel that matters ... not you.  I felt like having an affair so I did.  Now I feel like being forgiven and not being forced to make amends.  And when I feel like having another affair in the future?  What do you suppose I will do?  Your damn right ... I will do it and I will expect you to forgive me again if you find out.  ENTITLEMENT  The normal rules of society and marriage apply to others, but not him.  Is this okay with you?  Would he be okay with you applying the same rules and logic to yourself?  Hell no![/quote]

+1. the whole choice of words OP, if he can trust "iT/the relationship" is absolutely out of line. Had it been 6 months, 6 months of him acting like the most remorseful husband and you still throwing the affair in his face every morning then yes, he could ask that question aloud. But after 2 WEEKS??? 2 weeks of him behaving like an ass on top of it??? this is crazy[/quote]

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