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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again - DH gets very angry also asking about who I have told - which family, friends, etc. - I've of course needed to rely on some of my best friends to get me through this tough time, but they are people who are encouraging me on ways to save my marriage --- I feel like I understand his desire for the secret not to get "out" but that also deprives me of the benefit of support from my dearest friends and family that I need right now.  I also feel like actions have consequences, and he isn't ready to attribute accountability for himself for his behavior.[/quote]

Okay this makes me mad.  His affair is not your secret to keep.  If you need support, you should get it.  Please don't blame yourself for this.  You didn't deserve the affair no matter what, and you are allowed to do whatever it takes to get you through this.  One word of caution is that you might want to limit who you talk to, for yourself.  So, talk to your friends but i would wait on blasting it out to the world - and probably would never do that anyway - because people can be judgmental of you and your choices moving forward.[/quote]

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